I find it weird to be talking about him having a vasectomy and saying he’s “too young”
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you have to have a big talk with the clinic about the “what ifs” (what if your partner dies and you meet someone else, what if you lose one of the kids, what if you separate and find someone else, etc.) and it’s done without your partner there.
But on top of that, you can’t live life based on the WHAT IFS. If you’re walking around thinking “I can’t make a decision for myself because what if my child dies” you might need therapy
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I don’t find it weird that they’ve talked about a vasectomy. I’ve said before we think we are done at 2 and we’ve talked about a vasectomy. At no point have I thought we better not have one in case my children die??
Look I really don’t want to be in here defending her but
duck some of you make it hard not to!! I swear to god most of you are teenagers with no life experience just talking
tit about things you’ve never been through lol. Jesus Christ.