I get your point, and it 100% makes sense. I just think Vanessa can react however she wants (I know you’re not saying she shouldn‘t).
He’s the one in the wrong. She’s not. If she goes a bit OTT, is publicly upset, it doesn’t matter in the long run. She’s still Vanessa Feltz, love her or dislike her, she’s worked hard to make a good name for herself, and that won’t change.
In terms of publicity, this will all blow over, and she’ll still be Vanessa. I think one of the reasons some of us like her here is thats she’s completely herself.