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I've got a friend who lives in Penistone, South Yorkshire. I took great delight in ordering her some personalised stationary (back when letter writing was a thing). Apparently it's pronounced Penny's Town but in our house it's always Penis Tone.
 
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I've got a friend who lives in Penistone, South Yorkshire. I took great delight in ordering her some personalised stationary (back when letter writing was a thing). Apparently it's pronounced Penny's Town but in our house it's always Penis Tone.
I would imagine the men of penis tone to be quite tone deaf.
 
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I used to live by a pub called Cock & Seaman šŸ¤Ŗ
A public an I know plans to open another micropub post lockdown. He has set up a Facebook poll to name it. My suggestion is currently well ahead. We could soon be sat in the Turtles Head
 
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I would imagine the men of penis tone to be quite tone deaf.
I've never seen a penis belonging to a man from Penistone. I wonder if any celebs come from there? They are called Penistonians :D
ETA: Just googled and 3 footballers hail from there, John Stones, Marc Roberts and Chris Roberts. Never heard of any of them.
 
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A public an I know plans to open another micropub post lockdown. He has set up a Facebook poll to name it. My suggestion is currently well ahead. We could soon be sat in the Turtles Head
I think we should arrange a Tattle night out there as soon as it is legal to do so. I'm hoping he gets beer mats and glasses with the name on.
 
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I've got a friend who lives in Penistone, South Yorkshire. I took great delight in ordering her some personalised stationary (back when letter writing was a thing). Apparently it's pronounced Penny's Town but in our house it's always Penis Tone.
Penistone...I had to think about that one long and hardšŸ¤”
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A very good friend of mine who is very educated on gay issues and LGBTQ says Faggot comes from the burning of people, itā€™s a hateful term. I donā€™t know that most most people would know this, but the people it affects most, are likely to. So itā€™s not ā€œpolitical correctness gone madā€ to remove it. We learn, get educated we move on.

The ponce thing, though, since I never heard it directed at gay people canā€™t see that as homophobic, even if itā€™s roots were from then. Homophobes unfortunately have far more offensive unambiguously hurtful slurs to chose from. Iā€™ll have to look ponce up.
I am gay.

I'm really not offended by the word "faggot". I don't think it's particularly prevalent and is pretty outraged in itself.

The line in Fairytale of New York uses the word in its Irish context. In Ireland a faggot is a lazy, slobbish person. Context is everything, and I don't think it needs to be removed. I haven't met a gay man in real life who disagrees.

I find ponce much more offensive. Ponce is absolutely a homophobic slur, and is relatively widely-used. I'm not sure how you haven't heard it before. It's to indicate someone who is limp-wristed, and a bit soft and up themselves. Picture a man who works in a department store.

I think the original poster was mixing up ponce with n. A n is a pedalo.

I suppose we all have different views. I detest "queer".
 
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I am gay.

I'm really not offended by the word "faggot". I don't think it's particularly prevalent and is pretty outraged in itself.

The line in Fairytale of New York uses the word in its Irish context. In Ireland a faggot is a lazy, slobbish person. Context is everything, and I don't think it needs to be removed. I haven't met a gay man in real life who disagrees.

I find ponce much more offensive. Ponce is absolutely a homophobic slur, and is relatively widely-used. I'm not sure how you haven't heard it before. It's to indicate someone who is limp-wristed, and a bit soft and up themselves. Picture a man who works in a department store.

I think the original poster was mixing up ponce with n. A n is a pedalo.

I suppose we all have different views. I detest "queer".
Awww, this is really interesting. I've admitted further up that I had no idea what the word ponce meant and after seeing the description I would never use it. It's interesting how language evolves as well. Like certain words are ok when used by a certain group of people (usually marginalised who use the word to take back power). I'm not gay but love the word queer. I think it is used in quite a modern context even though I used to hear my Dad use it back in the day. Can I ask why you don't like it?

Where I grew up, the word faggot was an aggressive insult. I would never, ever say it.
 
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Re rude or suggestive names ...near where I live there are two villages ...Didling and Cocking...the car parks must be interesting of a summer night ..
 
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I am gay.

I'm really not offended by the word "faggot". I don't think it's particularly prevalent and is pretty outraged in itself.

The line in Fairytale of New York uses the word in its Irish context. In Ireland a faggot is a lazy, slobbish person. Context is everything, and I don't think it needs to be removed. I haven't met a gay man in real life who disagrees.

I find ponce much more offensive. Ponce is absolutely a homophobic slur, and is relatively widely-used. I'm not sure how you haven't heard it before. It's to indicate someone who is limp-wristed, and a bit soft and up themselves. Picture a man who works in a department store.

I think the original poster was mixing up ponce with n. A n is a pedalo.

I suppose we all have different views. I detest "queer".
I agree, growing up in London 'ponce' was someone who always wanted something for nothing- always around to have a drink bought for them but their round was never bought. Or wanting fag, food etc but gave nothing in return. I never realised the homophobic connotations until this thread.
Nonce has always been a pweirdo
 
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I am gay.

I'm really not offended by the word "faggot". I don't think it's particularly prevalent and is pretty outraged in itself.

The line in Fairytale of New York uses the word in its Irish context. In Ireland a faggot is a lazy, slobbish person. Context is everything, and I don't think it needs to be removed. I haven't met a gay man in real life who disagrees.

I find ponce much more offensive. Ponce is absolutely a homophobic slur, and is relatively widely-used. I'm not sure how you haven't heard it before. It's to indicate someone who is limp-wristed, and a bit soft and up themselves. Picture a man who works in a department store.

I think the original poster was mixing up ponce with n. A n is a pedalo.

I suppose we all have different views. I detest "queer".
This is really interesting. Iā€™m the original poster and didnā€™t realise that it changes n to p0nce. Not sure if this is autocorrect or tattle. As Iā€™ve previously said, I never knew it was a homophobic slur and would never use it in that sense.

My male gay friends hate the word faggot more so the abbreviation fag. I think because people have used it in an aggressive and intimidating manner to them on nights out. My auntie who is a lesbian doesnā€™t mind it as much but, hates the word dyke. As she used to get that a lot in the 80s.

My best friend loves the word queer and my other friend cannot stand it. She also hates pride and doesnā€™t care for labels. Itā€™s personal preference isnā€™t it.

I think language evolves so much and now we have to be more careful as the meanings behind words become more apparent. I didnā€™t mean any offence when I posted it - Iā€™m not homophobic in the slightest.

I only learnt that uppity was racist when it was used to describe Meghan Markle. Weā€™ve always known it as someone being arrogant (up themselves). It wasnā€™t a word I used often but, now Iā€™ll never use it.

Will be more mindful in the future!!
 
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