I want to agree with this, my partner and I have only just consistently started sleeping in the bed together 8 months after our second baby arrived. My partner works a lot and baby waking up multiple times a night plus a 2 year old who was feeling more sensitive after his brother arrived meant we had to do what we could to get the best sleep. My partner could work better and help me more if he was actually sleeping through the nightHate to defend her on the sleeping thing but I wouldn’t read too much into that, my husband sleeps in a bed with our two years old in his room and I sleep next to the four month old in the master bedroom and we are certainly not in some weird sibling sexless situation.
She’s so disconnected from that baby it’s sad, everything for the camera and no warmth at all. It’s like people who claim they are empaths usually being the most self obsessed humans around, claiming she wanted to be a mother since birth basically is a joke. I really dislike kids in general but am super loving towards my own.