You’re sure? I don’t think there are many IF ANY instances of Sarah referencing the collective when it comes to Kurt - it has constantly been ‘ME, MY, MINE’. Even the one recent exception is twisted - she called the boat she ‘gifted’ Kurt ‘OURS’ and was very repetitive in saying “It’s OURS. I bought it”. Now I don’t know about you guys but when I gift something to someone else it is most certainly theirs, not ours. Hence gift.If Kurt was there too I’m sure she’d use inclusive words.
I’m engaged and we recently bought and moved into our first home. And it just would never occur to me not to refer to these things as ‘our wedding, our home, our family’. But narc Sarah could never.