and the fact that Sarah clearly has absolutely no evening routine to speak off - the kids are regularly jumping around the place at gone 8pm, she puts them in PJs to go out to6!
I cant beleive her mum got L out of having someone next to him to fall asleep and now she's put him backwards. At 4 he should be able to be able to fall asleep on his own. To be it shows he doesnt feel secure or safe in his relationship with Sarah and thats why he needs her next to him.
Play, they don’t get a proper bath time every night and she lets them brush their teeth IN bed - the logistics of which escapes me.