**trigger warning**
I've been watching the carry on for the last month, stopping myself from commenting. Today was the final straw. I had a miscarriage in 2019. Baby was 7 weeks gestation and I passed him/her in the toilet in casualty, I didn't know what to do with the fetus so I brought it home and back in the next day. When I gave baby to the doctor she said ("what do you want me to do with that" and threw it in the bin, no "funeral" no "I know, where my baby is" ). THAT was heartbreaking.
In December 2020, we had our rainbow baby, and I haemorrhaged 10 days later. I nearly died, and had a stroke because of it, and retained placenta from my delivery. THAT was traumatic. All alone in hospital with my newborn at home not being able to move (literally)..
I gave birth to my 4th baby 8 weeks ago. I developed gestational diabetes during pregnancy and had to inject myself 7 times a day. Inject MYSELF because I'm not a gowl.
I delivered be elective C section. THAT was triggering. Being back on an operating table, surrounded by medical professionals after my bleed and stroke was traumatic. So much so that I had to work with a psychologist in the hospital during my pregnancy to find ways to help me cope.. I was diagnosed with PTSD. I will never be the same person I was 2 years ago, but I didn't plaster it all over social media. I worked on myself to help myself cope
Then you have this gowl acting like she is the most traumatised woman ever who had the worst thing happen to her because she did about a day of IVF and had a miscarriage.
She needs to stop this over sharing, because she doesn't know how to be sensitive. She has no sense, isn't articulate and is too selfish to be able to talk on this matter, without negatively affecting woman who have had traumatic birthing experiences.
She is doing way more harm than good, and she's dangerous because of it.
I wish she would just fuck off.
Sorry for the rant.
I've been watching the carry on for the last month, stopping myself from commenting. Today was the final straw. I had a miscarriage in 2019. Baby was 7 weeks gestation and I passed him/her in the toilet in casualty, I didn't know what to do with the fetus so I brought it home and back in the next day. When I gave baby to the doctor she said ("what do you want me to do with that" and threw it in the bin, no "funeral" no "I know, where my baby is" ). THAT was heartbreaking.
In December 2020, we had our rainbow baby, and I haemorrhaged 10 days later. I nearly died, and had a stroke because of it, and retained placenta from my delivery. THAT was traumatic. All alone in hospital with my newborn at home not being able to move (literally)..
I gave birth to my 4th baby 8 weeks ago. I developed gestational diabetes during pregnancy and had to inject myself 7 times a day. Inject MYSELF because I'm not a gowl.
I delivered be elective C section. THAT was triggering. Being back on an operating table, surrounded by medical professionals after my bleed and stroke was traumatic. So much so that I had to work with a psychologist in the hospital during my pregnancy to find ways to help me cope.. I was diagnosed with PTSD. I will never be the same person I was 2 years ago, but I didn't plaster it all over social media. I worked on myself to help myself cope
Then you have this gowl acting like she is the most traumatised woman ever who had the worst thing happen to her because she did about a day of IVF and had a miscarriage.
She needs to stop this over sharing, because she doesn't know how to be sensitive. She has no sense, isn't articulate and is too selfish to be able to talk on this matter, without negatively affecting woman who have had traumatic birthing experiences.
She is doing way more harm than good, and she's dangerous because of it.
I wish she would just fuck off.
Sorry for the rant.