Sarah Burke #49 burps gone missing like her 90cysts driving tattlers crazy like her floppy tits!

[HawTea2.0]

I am beyond hurt, upset and angry at this horrible b€tches post. I acknowledge a loss is a loss - however, this r&t miscarried a 12 week foetus. She is now trying to say she gave birth and the foetus was born sleeping. I tell you what ‘born sleeping’ is you f’ing article. I really care very little if I am outed or recognised here. My son Charlie was stillborn in 2010. I was 41 weeks pregnant. He weighed 8lb 6oz. He had a head of black curls, he kicked, hiccuped and sucked his thumb. We had a textbook pregnancy however he strangled on his umbilical cord during a 36 hour labour. He was a beautiful little boy. We dressed him, brought him home, put him in a white coffin, had a Mass of the Angel’s, buried him with my grandmother and we love and miss him every day. Our lives were changed forever that day. I could rant here for hours. It pains me to see that she is putting down foundations now for a new journey as a pregnancy loss influencer. I am sorry if I have upset anyone for posting this but I am so hurt - I’ve cried since I read her post.

My absolute wholehearted sympathy and respect for you. I can’t even fathom your pain. I hope you are ok and take time out from this bleep, I will be too. This is too much for anyone to deal with who has experienced their own losses and tried to come to terms with them without someone over exaggerating theirs, dramatising it and mocking it essentially. Big love to you

 

[Howareyahun]

I am beyond hurt, upset and angry at this horrible b€tches post. I acknowledge a loss is a loss - however, this r&t miscarried a 12 week foetus. She is now trying to say she gave birth and the foetus was born sleeping. I tell you what ‘born sleeping’ is you f’ing article. I really care very little if I am outed or recognised here. My son Charlie was stillborn in 2010. I was 41 weeks pregnant. He weighed 8lb 6oz. He had a head of black curls, he kicked, hiccuped and sucked his thumb. We had a textbook pregnancy however he strangled on his umbilical cord during a 36 hour labour. He was a beautiful little boy. We dressed him, brought him home, put him in a white coffin, had a Mass of the Angel’s, buried him with my grandmother and we love and miss him every day. Our lives were changed forever that day. I could rant here for hours. It pains me to see that she is putting down foundations now for a new journey as a pregnancy loss influencer. I am sorry if I have upset anyone for posting this but I am so hurt - I’ve cried since I read her post.

Sending hugs your way, I am so sorry for your loss x


This is exactly why some things need to be done in private, Sarah has no consideration for anyone. She is not an A list celeb, no one needs to know her business.

 

[Jellybb]

As I’ve shared tonight I lost a baby at nearly 20 weeks. We took our baby home in a little white coffin and bought a grave. We had a small blessing and burial at the grave. No funeral. Some family sent flowers. I can’t remember it was a good few years ago but I think the baby has to be at a certain gestation for the church to recognise the baby as having a soul or something. So having a formal funeral for an earlier Mc would not be a thing. Some will have the remains buried in the hospital grave yard, I presume that’s just a blessing?

Thank you for the explanation. So sorry for your loss

 

[Beddy]

I think she’s 28

Only a year younger than me she’s doing that annoying thing young wans do where they stick out their tongue and wink in one of her top posts. She deserves a funt into the jaw for that alone

 

[I'm luvvin it hunz]

I am beyond hurt, upset and angry at this horrible b€tches post. I acknowledge a loss is a loss - however, this r&t miscarried a 12 week foetus. She is now trying to say she gave birth and the foetus was born sleeping. I tell you what ‘born sleeping’ is you f’ing article. I really care very little if I am outed or recognised here. My son Charlie was stillborn in 2010. I was 41 weeks pregnant. He weighed 8lb 6oz. He had a head of black curls, he kicked, hiccuped and sucked his thumb. We had a textbook pregnancy however he strangled on his umbilical cord during a 36 hour labour. He was a beautiful little boy. We dressed him, brought him home, put him in a white coffin, had a Mass of the Angel’s, buried him with my grandmother and we love and miss him every day. Our lives were changed forever that day. I could rant here for hours. It pains me to see that she is putting down foundations now for a new journey as a pregnancy loss influencer. I am sorry if I have upset anyone for posting this but I am so hurt - I’ve cried since I read her post.

I fully understand where you're coming from. Yes each person's loss is horrific, but there's a big difference in a miscarriage and a baby born sleeping. I'm sorry for your loss, and that Charlie was stolen from you, I hope you're healing as time goes on, don't let this little nit upset you, virtual hug

 

[instafamous123]

I have had many a miscarriage unfortunately and some I past myself at the same gestation as her and I have also had d&c for a missed miscarriage I would never compare that to a stillborn baby and her post kinda suggests that. I know because I have had a stillborn little boy, grief is grief I know that and her loss is very sad but the wording of that post is a bit unusual

It is unusual and just not the facts. It’s totally different delivering a full term baby that is still born. This is a miscarriage in early enough stages. I agree it is just as heartbreaking but it is not a baby born sleeping like she has said.

 

[cycleon]

Thread title: Long time lurker, missing Burker

I’ll show myself out

 

[Sassyclassymom]

It is unusual and just not the facts. It’s totally different delivering a full term baby that is still born. This is a miscarriage in early enough stages. I agree it is just as heartbreaking but it is not a baby born sleeping like she has said.

Her post has just triggered me. When my baby was stillborn he was perfect he looked like his sister and has the most beautiful little face. Very different to any of the miscarriages I had because they were tiny, all still my baby’s but a miscarriage is not a stillbirth and I’d say her post has triggered a lot of people

 

[Strawberrycheesecake]

100% agree with this .. lost our baby at 9 weeks . We named her bought a star for her .. and she’s still remembered 15 years on .. I say her as I don’t want her remembered at the baby who was miscarried .. I totally understand how Sarah is feeling .. acknowledgment for a baby that is never to be born .. she is grieving her own way .. we all grieve differently .. and react differently ..
Still don’t like the girl , don’t like her partner .. don’t like her family . They are absolute trailor trash .. but they are grieving.. let her do it her way ..

 

[silentlurkersjourneylol]

My absolute wholehearted sympathy and respect for you. I can’t even fathom your pain. I hope you are ok and take time out from this bleep, I will be too. This is too much for anyone to deal with who has experienced their own losses and tried to come to terms with them without someone over exaggerating theirs, dramatising it and mocking it essentially. Big love to you

So so sorry you have had to go through such a horrific tragedy. It's awful to think that even though she's lost her baby , she's still willing to exploit a 12 week old baby for her own gratification ... Again sorry for your loss. Xxx

 

[sweetypie3000]

Her following has now gone up to 50.4k

 

[butterflybilly]

Hopefully she's focusing on Luke , holding him close and trying to explain what's happened. I feel so sorry for Luke.

Luke will be anywhere farmed out, GUARANTEE, he is not home with his mother!!!! He and her will "just need to be" Luke is not, has never, or will never be higher on her priority list than her

 

[MojitoMel]

I've refrained from commenting here since she went silent. But I've read each and every post and I just want to say thank you to everyone who shared their stories of loss.
I'm very sorry that Sarah and her family are going through this, its a heartbreaking situation, just devastating.

I have no doubt she will monetise this loss in any way she can because she is a vacuous human being who needs validation from the internet. And I'm sure there will be companies out there will see her post and see an opportunity to promote themselves through it also.

She could have posted a simple message, I think the term born sleeping is a little misguided but just goes to show she choses her words for maximum effect.
She could have just looked at the rainbow for a moment instead of whipping out her phone to create content.
She could chose to grieve privately and not trigger followers with endless mourn porn.

She could. But she will choose not to.

 

[HawTea2.0]

Her following has now gone up to 50.4k

Grief tourists, she put out the bread crumbs all week to get the rumour mill going, posted at peak time, shared the post to her story. If you weren’t following before, what would be your reason for following someone that just announced a MC, I genuinely don’t see the logic at all

 

[Batmani]

Without getting anyones personal stories, but would it be normal to have a funeral for a miscarriage? Before I am attacked, I am not suggesting Sarah is, nor am I trying to make little of anyones losses.

In CUMH at this stage of pregnancy they offer to do a burial in a shared plot in Mahon or you can do a burial yourself if you choose. The place in Mahon doesn’t do a proper funeral just a blessing type thing.

 

[instafamous123]

I've refrained from commenting here since she went silent. But I've read each and every post and I just want to say thank you to everyone who shared their stories of loss.
I'm very sorry that Sarah and her family are going through this, its a heartbreaking situation, just devastating.

I have no doubt she will monetise this loss in any way she can because she is a vacuous human being who needs validation from the internet. And I'm sure there will be companies out there will see her post and see an opportunity to promote themselves through it also.

She could have posted a simple message, I think the term born sleeping is a little misguided but just goes to show she choses her words for maximum effect.
She could have just looked at the rainbow for a moment instead of whipping out her phone to create content.
She could chose to grieve privately and not trigger followers with endless mourn porn.

She could. But she will choose not to.

Very well said

 

[Beddy]

Can everyone please settle down and stop fighting, we had a nice little community here before the last week. Yes some of the comments are very OTT, but that’s tattle, it’s where caustic witches opinionated people converge. You really cannot be sensitive, for your own sake Way way back I was called a nazi on a Sarah Burke thread because I said I wouldn’t have a child with Keith incase I’d have unattractive children. It’s funny cos my kids are half middle eastern half Beddy from the block Take literally nothing personally here!
Drive it on now, new thread new vibe

 

[sweetypie3000]

I've refrained from commenting here since she went silent. But I've read each and every post and I just want to say thank you to everyone who shared their stories of loss.
I'm very sorry that Sarah and her family are going through this, its a heartbreaking situation, just devastating.

I have no doubt she will monetise this loss in any way she can because she is a vacuous human being who needs validation from the internet. And I'm sure there will be companies out there will see her post and see an opportunity to promote themselves through it also.

She could have posted a simple message, I think the term born sleeping is a little misguided but just goes to show she choses her words for maximum effect.
She could have just looked at the rainbow for a moment instead of whipping out her phone to create content.
She could chose to grieve privately and not trigger followers with endless mourn porn.

She could. But she will choose not to.

Mourn porn sorry I can’t take it seriously

Grief tourists, she put out the bread crumbs all week to get the rumour mill going, posted at peak time, shared the post to her story. If you weren’t following before, what would be your reason for following someone that just announced a MC, I genuinely don’t see the logic at all

Grief tourists na im done I’m going straight to hell

 

[corkycork89]

Can everyone please settle down and stop fighting, we had a nice little community here before the last week. Yes some of the comments are very OTT, but that’s tattle, it’s where caustic witches opinionated people converge. You really cannot be sensitive, for your own sake Way way back I was called a nazi on a Sarah Burke thread because I said I wouldn’t have a child with Keith incase I’d have unattractive children. It’s funny cos my kids are half middle eastern half Beddy from the block Take literally nothing personally here!
Drive it on now, new thread new vibe

yes to this!!

 

[lil_sox]

How she worded it was wrong for the gestation she was at in my opinion.. but I guess if she didn’t get the d and c and the mc happened after medication etc then I guess that term isn’t 100% wrong?
Reading peoples stories on here tonight is absolutely heartbreaking, some of you have gone through things I just couldn’t even imagine and I can see how intensely triggering her post is for you all that have experienced babies born sleeping, as well as other awful traumas

as per usual with burp it’s ill thought out and with little regard for how others may perceive it, but in saying that she is grieving and if saying it that way eases her pain then that’s ok for her..but not for a massive amount of people that follow her

don’t know am I even making sense here, I’m so afraid of using the wrong terminology and upsetting someone inadvertently