This thread isn't toxic at all. Roseanna on the other hand...
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That's horrendous, and I hope you're doing OK.I don’t agree with a lot of what Roseanne has posted but I lost my little girl 2.5 years ago 5 weeks before turning 3and her twin sister gets us through the days, I post on Insta with posts about missing my daughter as it’s how I deal and cope with my grief. I haven’t nor ever will share our little girl’s resting place as somethings should be kept private and I want to honour and respect my precious girl. Each to their own I say. I’m sure there are lots watching my stories/posts going oh Lord not this one posting morbid stories again but they can always skip/block…!
I am presuming here, but somehow I doubt you're posting to nearly 150k followers, and instead sharing to an audience of people you mostly know. I'd also guess that you're not intertwining those posts with collabs and advertising businesses, or sharing events alongside snippets from the funeral, and worse. Perhaps my presumptions are wrong, but if they're right, then that's a whole different scenario.
As myself and my husband say, we’ll never be ok ever again.
Your presumptions are all correct.
I empathise with Roseanna as her pain and heartache is what I’m going through each and every day. I don’t agree with the posting from the grave and showing the little girl at the grave and showing a coffee cup in front of a grave. Perhaps having being so public on all that poor Saoirse endured she feels she has to continue
What's "normal" when you've lost a child? Or "normal" when you've a child with terminal cancer?
Can you really sit with yourself in your judgment of such a vulnerable person who has experienced the worst in life?
Yes, maybe it's not something you would do, or I would do, but why comment.
I really hope for her own sake she doesn't know that this thread exists.
Imagine experiencing the worst pain of your life and having strangers judge you for how you behave when coping with it.
***if anyone doesn't like the comments here ..unfollow the thread and stop moderating opinions..
Just use your ignore button
I'm entitled to my opinion just as much as anyone else.
It's a useful discussion to have, no? We don't all have to agree
Bad behaviour is bad behaviour, poor taste is poor taste. She's the one sharing it.
Welcome to Tattle... Anything posted by these people online is fair game, and no one here can say what should and shouldn't be talked about - it's literally in the rules.
I can sit very well with myself.
FR back with the happy x day messages today, said bye rather than good luck but there's still a bang of "perform for the camera" about it
It seemed well rehearsed
100% rehearsed. Poor little girl.
Followed by a story explaining that she is putting AD on it as she hopes to be working with the brand again in the future. That makes no sense, it's either an ad, or not... That's just a desperate attempt to get the brand to hire her again.
And another story thanking everyone that visited the grave over the weekend. The message she got from that follower shows the type of person that would visit a stranger's child's grave. The message saying the whole country felt her loss, etc. That's only pushing her in the wrong direction, making her feel like she needs to share all of this.
I'm happy to see FR will be starting play therapy soon, but I hope those sessions are kept private.
They won’t unfortunately. She’ll document it as a collaboration. I give up on this woman’s understanding of mothering. Sell what you want to make a living but think again on the back of a deceased child or living sibling.
No play therapist worth their salt would be taking a child in this situation until a good six months later.. and oh god yes, re private.
I really can’t stand that ‘choose your hard’ shite that’s doing the rounds now.
It’s the new manifesting. I’m sorry now but no body would chose hard if easy gave same results or outcome.
Very true, I only thought of that after, they generally don't recommend it in the immediate weeks and months after losing someone like that.