Imagine a preschooler asking for a group hug from her parents and mom saying wait lets do a reel even the poor dog doesn't know what she should be doing weather to jump up or not.
I was a child in a family that lost a child following a long illness and tbh never felt enough as the grief of a parent is so huge, and there is a part missing forever, I used to think it might have been better if it had been me she wouldn't be so sad, obviously I understand it now as an adult with my own kids and when I told my mother she said it didn't matter she loved us all and wanted us all with her but it does leave its mark.
I do totally get they are all in bits and trying to find a way through the grief but that little girl needs unconditional love she isn't an actress or child model she is little more than a toddler at home in her own house missing her big sister, Just let her be to eat her breakfast watch tv or hop into bed without being recorded.