It's a scouse thing, the youngest is always referred to as "our baby" no matter how old they are hahaView attachment 833331
Who is she referring to when she says ‘our’ and ‘baby’?? Weird
It's a scouse thing, the youngest is always referred to as "our baby" no matter how old they are hahaView attachment 833331
Who is she referring to when she says ‘our’ and ‘baby’?? Weird
I think it’s an outdated term now you know , dunno why , plus she’s a wool so I now see it as wool terminology hahaIt's a scouse thing, the youngest is always referred to as "our baby" no matter how old they are haha
I genuinely think she is obsessed with herNot that bleeping pic of her and happy healthy club PT again. She’s always posting that pic. Alright val you have a mate for now. Calm down.
She’s 30 soon - how do they even know each other ? Val goes on like lifelong friends , very bizarre as I doubt they are.Not that bleeping pic of her and happy healthy club PT again. She’s always posting that pic. Alright val you have a mate for now. Calm down.
Exactly, obsessive behaviour and not enough going on I work with someone like this and it's bleeping draining, literally latch onto anyone who gives her attention and a bit lesbo behaviourShe’s 30 soon - how do they even know each other ? Val goes on like lifelong friends , very bizarre as I doubt they are.
Yeah its a bit outdated but alot of kids still get called it by family until their about 10 also she is a wool so has no right using the termI think it’s an outdated term now you know , dunno why , plus she’s a wool so I now see it as wool terminology haha
I’ve got cousins living in the Wirral and when I call one of her little ones the baby she says ‘SHES NOT A BABY’I think it’s an outdated term now you know , dunno why , plus she’s a wool so I now see it as wool terminology haha
She would have them with the scissorsBack on open IG again, fucks sake sal which personality are we today.
Howling at her for sticking up for the protesters about global warming when she RENTS one of the most polluted vehicles out, and you're telling me Sal wouldn't go mental at them if they were blocking her road on the way to meet a client. Full of tit Sal get back to playing snap with your imaginary kids
I think you’ve hit the nail on the head, that’s why she has a separate room, she wouldn’t be allowed to have them in her room over night by SS..I think she is abroad and her kids are there.
But I think lisa the enabler has taken them and Sal is there, too. Seeing as she’s not even allowed to have them unsupervised overnight, I’d guess she’s got her own room. That’s why no room tour etc and of a night they’re with lisa and that’s why she can go out drinking/looking for punters.
She just spends the day by the pool with them, hence the solo Mirror selfie’ in the lifts etc.
Thankfully I’ve been lucky enough never to have to consider this question for myself but I often wonder if people who have highly toxic parents like Sal think they would be better off with them completely removed from their lives or if there is some benefit to contact (no matter how unreliable and let down they must feel).Totally agree - I hope those poor girls are kept as far away from her as possible tbh. To say she’s a toxic mess is an understatement- she’s the kind of woman who would be jealous of her own daughters and if she did have them full time would lead them in to a very unhealthy life, especially where men and self esteem are concerned. Those girls are better off without
Unless I’m mistaken, all major displays are listed on various council websites, unless of course Sal is after a different type of bonfire night I.e. one where can she take her kids and get wasted at the same timeView attachment 833331
Who is she referring to when she says ‘our’ and ‘baby’?? Weird
I had emotionally abusive parents and I know I can never truly say I would prefer themThankfully I’ve been lucky enough never to have to consider this question for myself but I often wonder if people who have highly toxic parents like Sal think they would be better off with them completely removed from their lives or if there is some benefit to contact (no matter how unreliable and let down they must feel).
By the way, clarifying before she tries to twist our words- No one is speculating that her children might be better off without Sal in their lives if she were dead (absolutely no one wishes her to not be alive). Instead, I’m wondering if they might be better off by Sal not contacting them until they’re old enough to make a decision for themselves.
Thank you so much for sharingI had emotionally abusive parents and I know I can never truly say I would prefer them
Not to have been in my life because they’re my parents and I love them so much, probably harder than I should, but that’s another symptom of the effect it has on your self esteem. I had all the love to give to them but they had their own tit going on but I’d still try and try and wonder why I was never good enough and that has stayed with me. You don’t realise it day to day but when I look back at certain behaviours it’s clear as day.
Any outsider can see it would have been better they weren’t there but that’s not life, and once you are aware of your parents then it’s a constant struggle for their love and for them to change and that rarely, if never happens.
Would I be a better person and would I be more emotionally stable if they’d have kept their distance, one million percent!
The worst thing for those girls is her being in and out of their lives and love bombing them with tit designer clothes, then bleeping off on her jollies.
The best we can hope that is day to day they are shown enough love, affection and positivity that when they are older they can differentiate between toxic behaviour/people and understand what they deserve and not base their self esteem and value on the love of hard to please people like their mother.
I’m having tolearn to love myself, bad bits included and Really think on what’s rational behaviour from myself and other people and it’s exhausting.
To never try harder for her kids just so she can live a life of addressing tattle and taking porno pictures is just beyond sad. There isn’t a maternal bone in her body. There can’t be. I never thought I’d have kids and wasn’t interested at all but now I have I would die before I let anyone think I wasn’t doing all I could to give them love and a happy home life. I just cant see what is more important than that.
I know she has serious mental health issues, we have some similar diagnoses if what I’ve read is true, but she is next level because she is so self absorbed, it’s scary. I just think she needs to drop the whole mum act and be who she wants to be and leave those girls well alone.I bet when she’s around Lisa feels like she’s got 3 kids not 2 (I know Sal is her kid but I mean on an age/neediness level too)
I’ll try to be brief because I know this is meant to be just on sally even though it is relevant. My Mum has owned her tit and I don’t think she’ll ever forgive herself or stop trying to make amends. dad on the other hand, he wouldn’t even acknowledge the situation let alone have a conversation. He’s loved up with wife no.2 so any issues I have are mine to sort and not his. It’s sad because he’s a very loving man but he grew up with a lot of family issues so I just have to remember that we’re all products of the last generations bullshit. It’s just a blessing if you can make sense of it and be better. I just wish I’d have realised in my twenties because I was a head. I’m far from perfect as a mother. I catch myself being a witch sometimes and I hate myself. Sometimes it’s a curse being so self aware but I’d rather that than be just pleasing myself and raising the next generation of duck ups. It’s the biggest responsibility bringing a child in to this world. This is why so many of us struggle to reconcile Sally’s behaviour. It’s an insult for someone like Sal to claim the title of mother to be honest. She is proof that you can give birth but it doesn’t make you a motherThank you so much for sharing
It’s exactly this type of experience that you have suffered that makes me so highly critical of Sallie and others like her because of the damage they do. I can’t apologise for it because it honestly breaks my heart that innocent children who never asked to be born are brought into the world and get a raw deal with people who maybe should never have been parents in the first place.
Instead of the parents trying to make the best out of an irreversible situation (of realising parenthood might not be for them), they decide to project their tit onto the children and destroy them.
You seem to be really insightful of your past, I’m sure it doesn’t change any of the hurt but I really hope it helps you realise you’re an amazing, special person to not only have overcome an unfair childhood but also growing from it to go on and be the best parent you can be.
It also seems to be a mixed bag between the parents who realise they’ve done wrong and feel guilt and even want to try make amends versus the ones who blame anyone but themselves. As Sal presents now, I think she’s the latter and may never say sorry to her girls. If it’s something you want, I hope one day your parents will at least attempt to make it up to you![]()
I’m so pleased your mum is at least giving you some type of validation as I imagine it’s better late then never at all, I’m sorry about your dad, it sounds like you’ll never get the least that you deserve.I’ll try to be brief because I know this is meant to be just on sally even though it is relevant. My Mum has owned her tit and I don’t think she’ll ever forgive herself or stop trying to make amends. dad on the other hand, he wouldn’t even acknowledge the situation let alone have a conversation. He’s loved up with wife no.2 so any issues I have are mine to sort and not his. It’s sad because he’s a very loving man but he grew up with a lot of family issues so I just have to remember that we’re all products of the last generations bullshit. It’s just a blessing if you can make sense of it and be better. I just wish I’d have realised in my twenties because I was a head. I’m far from perfect as a mother. I catch myself being a witch sometimes and I hate myself. Sometimes it’s a curse being so self aware but I’d rather that than be just pleasing myself and raising the next generation of duck ups. It’s the biggest responsibility bringing a child in to this world. This is why so many of us struggle to reconcile Sally’s behaviour. It’s an insult for someone like Sal to claim the title of mother to be honest. She is proof that you can give birth but it doesn’t make you a mother
I shouldn’t even say ‘perfect parent’ should I, cos there isn’t any such thing really, we know this but I guess we just like putting pressure on ourselves ha ha- but showing up and trying to be good is what kids need and it’s so sad to hear empty words from sally, just whatever she thinks people should hear. knowing there are two girls who will always feel a little bit less than cos of herI’m so pleased your mum is at least giving you some type of validation as I imagine it’s better late then never at all, I’m sorry about your dad, it sounds like you’ll never get the least that you deserve.
I’m far from perfect as a parent too btw, I guess there are few of us that are, but if we’re trying and will continue to try, I think that’s what sets us apart from the likes of Sal. She seems not only to have stopped trying, but is actually living a life she prefers to the one she might have had if she’d stuck it out and tried to get her children back. From what others have said on the thread, it takes sooo many chances and screw ups to have children permanently removed from your care so it’s like she decided her kids just weren’t worth the ‘graft’ that she so often talks about. Despite making that choice though, she isn’t prepared to own it, she makes out it was taken out of her hands and I detest that tbh.