It’s all scripted unfortunately. I loved the show until the ex army guy a few years ago broke his agreement and spoke about the show. You have to contact your family, you have to tell them the area you are in (thats why there always seems to be a “crew” at least 30 mins away). Saffron is that thick she would probs be at Wendy’s since she can’t cope without herAnd doing fairly well by the looks of it!