I think she sums up 'influence privilege' better than most, and why so many of them are so unrelatable. The thing that gets me with the whole industry isn't just the ads, freebies etc which are shadily referenced. It's the complete lack of self awareness of how their perfectionism make others feel. I had crippling ante-natal depression in my 2nd pregnancy. It was as much as I could do to eat back to back white toast with strawberry jam to quell nausea, drag myself in to work, worry about getting sacked because my performance was so bad because I was so ill, come home, be engaging with my 2 year old, do washing, evening meal etc and then go back to bed wishing to die or miscarry overnight so that I could be released from the misery that the pg hormones had put me in. I find all the 'perfect pregnancy' stuff from all influencers hugely triggering and it gives me such rage. Because do you know what? Despite the shittest pregnancy ever, where I only managed folic acid 50% of the time and a 3 month block of amnesia (I literally have no memories of about about 12 weeks of my life - I do have photos still which surprise me that we went and did things), I had a perfectly healthy baby who is now 4 and racing ahead. Obviously NHS style pregnancy advice is useful as a guide and people shouldn't drink/smoke etc and try and eat well. Maybe organise themselves with some equipment etc, but this perfecting is AWFUL for people's mental health, if she'd have been on when I was PG it would have destroyed me.