Rosie Ramsey #4 baby's here, where's my wine, bring on the free stuff, it's #ad time

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have You ever heard the expression that you can’t pour from an empty cup? If she doesn’t look after herself and do the things that make her happy, her resilience and ability to look after her child will be impacted. If a glass of wine of a night is what helps, that doesn’t make her any less of a doting mother.
Think it was more than a glass of wine the other night with the banana 😉🤭😉
 
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Yes, I have heard that and I still stand by my opinion that it is highly unusual for a mother of such a young baby to be so keen to go out drinking. It's my experience that mothers want to be with their newborn; that just seems like a natural impulse! All she's done since he was born is moan: she's not happy getting up in the night, she's not happy being at home (safe!) with her newborn. Everything's so difficult for CRW. That bubble you have when your baby is just born is so precious. I honestly think it takes a weird-ass person to be acting the way CRW is.
Maybe she is down and suffering. I don’t think shes depressed but how can we know. I think she’s a generally sociable person and is used to doing as she pleases. If she’d had a normal year , got pregnant and had her baby then behaved like this I’d very much agree about the constant moaning about booze and going out but there’s no life going on for most people atm. I think she adores Rafe . I just think she’s bored and misses her friends. I had baby no 4 17 years ago and I wanted to be out within 2 weeks of having him. I always waited till they were 3 month before as that’s when I felt well enough and before that didn’t want to leave him with grandparents or hubby. . I loved him I was a doting mother . I just needed my friends and a good dance and a nice time away from kids and hubby . Very much loved my hubby by the way but it wasn’t him I wanted at that time. It’s been an awful year for everyone . She’s very lucky in so many ways compared to loads of people which on a social platform I think she should occasionally acknowledge so she doesn’t come across so selfish. But I also think we can’t say well I didn’t want to leave my baby for several months so she shouldn’t. He’s happy , healthy and loved and if there was no lockdown I’d be the first to encourage her to go and have a fab night.
 
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Yes, I have heard that and I still stand by my opinion that it is highly unusual for a mother of such a young baby to be so keen to go out drinking. It's my experience that mothers want to be with their newborn; that just seems like a natural impulse! All she's done since he was born is moan: she's not happy getting up in the night, she's not happy being at home (safe!) with her newborn. Everything's so difficult for CRW. That bubble you have when your baby is just born is so precious. I honestly think it takes a weird-ass person to be acting the way CRW is.
I don’t think she’s necessarily keen to go out drinking, I think she just wants to go OUT. As the mum of a 5 week old I can say that having a newborn during lockdown is TOUGH, so I can’t begrudge her that. I just don’t like the way that she portrays it across her social media as it makes her seem as though she resents having a baby rather than resenting the lockdown and the current COVID situation. Like I said in my earlier post, I don’t think she can have many people to talk to in ‘real life’ so she spouts it all over social media and doesn’t think about how she comes across.
 
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I don’t think she’s necessarily keen to go out drinking, I think she just wants to go OUT. As the mum of a 5 week old I can say that having a newborn during lockdown is TOUGH, so I can’t begrudge her that. I just don’t like the way that she portrays it across her social media as it makes her seem as though she resents having a baby rather than resenting the lockdown and the current COVID situation. Like I said in my earlier post, I don’t think she can have many people to talk to in ‘real life’ so she spouts it all over social media and doesn’t think about how she comes across.
Congratulations on the baby in a really odd time! I think people do feel locked in which is the idea but with a new baby it must be extra hard when you can’t have friends and family around you. Us normal people who aren’t 2 bit celebs would moan to friends on the phone etc but Rosie does it in front of thousands of strangers who aren’t her friends , which is why she gets the backlash. However I like she shows Rafe. I hate celebrities that go on about their pregnancy then hide the baby. It should be one or the other. I’m just waiting for all the ads to start with him. They will come.
 
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Maybe she is down and suffering. I don’t think shes depressed but how can we know. I think she’s a generally sociable person and is used to doing as she pleases. If she’d had a normal year , got pregnant and had her baby then behaved like this I’d very much agree about the constant moaning about booze and going out but there’s no life going on for most people atm. I think she adores Rafe . I just think she’s bored and misses her friends. I had baby no 4 17 years ago and I wanted to be out within 2 weeks of having him. I always waited till they were 3 month before as that’s when I felt well enough and before that didn’t want to leave him with grandparents or hubby. . I loved him I was a doting mother . I just needed my friends and a good dance and a nice time away from kids and hubby . Very much loved my hubby by the way but it wasn’t him I wanted at that time. It’s been an awful year for everyone . She’s very lucky in so many ways compared to loads of people which on a social platform I think she should occasionally acknowledge so she doesn’t come across so selfish. But I also think we can’t say well I didn’t want to leave my baby for several months so she shouldn’t. He’s happy , healthy and loved and if there was no lockdown I’d be the first to encourage her to go and have a fab night.
Thank you for validating my suggestion that you can want a drink AND still be a doting mother.
 
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Thank you for validating my suggestion that you can want a drink AND still be a doting mother.
I’m a moany witch when pregnant and adored my kids , was devoted. They’re my world. But you can love your kids and want to go out and have fun and drinks after 9 months of no drinking and nearly a year of being locked down. Yes I know she’s done loads more than most. I think every parent feels different. She had her rainbow baby . I had 2 rainbow baby’s but I loved wine and time out and that was pre lockdown . Each to their own. She’s still a moan 😂
 
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I had a baby a week before Rosie had Rafe and it’s made me struggle mentally even more with lockdown as I feel even more isolated and just want to go back to ‘normal’. Things are so different to when I had my own children and if I want to go out for 5 minutes to myself/have a breather there’s no where to go! I wonder if that’s why Rosie is doubling down so much on the wanting to have a drink/wanting to go out/being generally miserable. She’s in the north east too so they’ve been restricted for a lot longer than others have.

Having said that, I’m not splashing it all over my social media! Everyone has a moan sometimes but it’s usually to friends of family. Does Rosie not have many friends ‘in real life’?
I honestly don't think she'd be making such a massive deal of it all if she'd been able to socialise normally during pregnancy and could be out and about now, seeing friends and introducing them to Rafe etc. I expect she IS moaning like duck to her mum, sister and friends, but is putting it on Instagram because she thinks its super relatable to all new mums in lockdown plus its extra validation for her feelings!
 
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This is sad as duck. You’re in your cosy home with a husband who loves you and you love him, two perfectly healthy kids and you’re enjoying a glass of wine. That is perfect. That is a little pleasure in life! Yet she’s hating it?!
Exactly! But I’m sure someone will be along soon to explain why it’s ok to be totally ungrateful for having a happy family and a safe home and not read the room
 
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I used to love watching Rosie’s stories but I must admit they are started to grate on me now. And I honestly can’t stand it when she sings 😖 I feel like she just does it to show off. Like when you sing along to the radio you do it casually but she fully goes for it everytime she sings on her stories and it makes me physically cringe 😬
 
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Everything she does is staged...CRW seems to have this weird need to now post every pointless aspect of her life...we all know she is doing night feeds, she reminds us daily there is absolutely no need to constantly post odd pictures staring at the camera like a loon ! She would get more rest if she left her phone off in another part of her house! Struggling to find any sympathy for her when she is clearly not helping herself!
 
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I liked the podcasts, started listening from the beginning recently, then I found her on IG & that was it, after a while of watching, my opinion of her changed so much. I thought they were a laid back, easy going couple until I saw IG!
 
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I liked the podcasts, started listening from the beginning recently, then I found her on IG & that was it, after a while of watching, my opinion of her changed so much. I thought they were a laid back, easy going couple until I saw IG!
The podcast has a producer to edit it so they come off quite well. Unfortunately CRW’s Instagram isn’t edited.
 
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Everything she does is staged...CRW seems to have this weird need to now post every pointless aspect of her life...we all know she is doing night feeds, she reminds us daily there is absolutely no need to constantly post odd pictures staring at the camera like a loon ! She would get more rest if she left her phone off in another part of her house! Struggling to find any sympathy for her when she is clearly not helping herself!
All she’s doing and moaning about is the things that come with a new born, night feeds, little time for yourself etc. Yes it’s crap she can’t go to family or friends but really what else would be different, she’d still be exhausted she still wouldn’t have time for big lash ups yet.
 
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All she’s doing and moaning about is the things that come with a new born, night feeds, little time for yourself etc. Yes it’s crap she can’t go to family or friends but really what else would be different, she’d still be exhausted she still wouldn’t have time for big lash ups yet.
This is what makes it extra annoying! She already has a son! She knows what having a newborn baby is like. This baby is supposed to be a very much wanted baby and yet here she is moaning about all the things that come hand in hand with a newborn baby! What is that even about? If you hate the night feeds and not having time to yourself, and not being able to go out getting wasted so much that you have to moan about it constantly, every single day, then why would you even choose to have another child? The mind boggles.
 
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This is what makes it extra annoying! She already has a son! She knows what having a newborn baby is like. This baby is supposed to be a very much wanted baby and yet here she is moaning about all the things that come hand in hand with a newborn baby! What is that even about? If you hate the night feeds and not having time to yourself, and not being able to go out getting wasted so much that you have to moan about it constantly, every single day, then why would you even choose to have another child? The mind boggles.
Don’t forget she’s a doting mother 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
 
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I think she does all the moaning to try and ‘fit in’. All the new mums now seem to moan about the sleepless nights, nappies and lack of wine. They like to parade around in maternity nappies and show everyone their leaky tits. My kids are teenagers now but jeez, we all know babies cry, barely sleep and that your boobs will leak most of the time. It seems like these insta mums want to make motherhood seem impossible. Yes it’s hard but it’s also a lovely time. Put your phone down, drink the wine if you want and if you want to slob around in week old clothes, cool but that’s not the baby’s fault it’s just pure laziness.
 
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I think she does all the moaning to try and ‘fit in’. All the new mums now seem to moan about the sleepless nights, nappies and lack of wine. They like to parade around in maternity nappies and show everyone their leaky tits. My kids are teenagers now but jeez, we all know babies cry, barely sleep and that your boobs will leak most of the time. It seems like these insta mums want to make motherhood seem impossible. Yes it’s hard but it’s also a lovely time. Put your phone down, drink the wine if you want and if you want to slob around in week old clothes, cool but that’s not the baby’s fault it’s just pure laziness.
Just listened to the latest stories, moaning about having to wind her baby, moaning about him making noises, moaning he wants another feed after burping - I just can’t see how she is ‘doting’ on this gorgeous little boy. If anything, it seems that she resents having to care for him.

The latest batch of stories are the types of conversation you have with your mum, or sister, or mate - not to broadcast to randoms on the internet.

She calls herself an influencer, that’s her ‘job’ but not sure what she’s influencing me to do.... Moan a lot?
 
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She’s just shared a post from an account called the student midwife something who says they’re listening to the podcast getting ready for the night shift and Rosie thinks the account means feeding the baby through the night. No Rosie babe, like a job. You know when people go to work, not just caring for the child you chose to have😂
 
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She’s just shared a post from an account called the student midwife something who says they’re listening to the podcast getting ready for the night shift and Rosie thinks the account means feeding the baby through the night. No Rosie babe, like a job. You know when people go to work, not just caring for the child you chose to have😂
Hahaha

I’ve literally just seen that. People actually going out and working themselves.

ironic that the girl is a midwife - she’s not a clue, so out of touch.
 
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