Regarding health issues, I don't think anyone here would mock someone's health issues, even if we suspect they may be bullshit?? I do think it's fair to point out contradictions however or when things seem 'off', I mean, that's partly why we're here discussing someone in the first place?
Yeah, the contradictions is key I think.
To use a daft example, if someone is claiming they had their appendix out at 16 but then suddenly claims appendicitis, absolutely fair/needed to call that out, but if it's Brian who has never mentioned theirs before saying it, take it on trust etc. Despite what influencers like to claim, tattle has always been really good for this.
This is probably showing my own bias, but the revelation the youngest children are girls makes the fact she's called them the Krays even more confusing to me! (I'd thought it was bizarre even with boys)