Rebecca Lamb #90 content drier than a nuns hunt, off to a&e for a gallbladder stunt!

[heidilouxx]

Hey someone asked if there was anyone from school or a senco. I'm a qualified primary teacher, taught for 8 years and have taught many autistic children and children with varying levels of need. I now work in Education for my local authority and work alongside a variety of services such as children's social care, children's disability service, the family service etc. Every school has to follow a graduated response to children with SEN. EHCPs (formally known as statements) are very difficult to be awarded and generally are after years of following the graduated response, ie proving that all other avenues have already been followed. They are typically for children with high level needs that are likely to attend a special school. In my experience and from what I have seen of Alfie on Instagram, he wouldn't meet the level of need for an EHCP. It's possible that he is receiving some in school support such as small group or 1 to 1 interventions without parental permission (you don't need that to work with TAs in small groups) but for things such as speech and language, accessing outside agencies, you do need parental permission. Again without us knowing his full academic ability, and only seeing small snippets of him on insta, it's very difficult to exactly pinpoint his level of need and therefore what exact support he needs. In addition what an EHCP provides access to differs with each local authority. Some state funding, some don't. You don't need an EHCP in order to have some targeted support from a TA in school. In order to get more funding, children need to be taken to what is called Springboard which is a meeting between the sencos in the family of schools where you can access support from Schools and Families Specialist Services and if needed some extra funding known as AFN and HLN. Again you need parental permission for this. The school has to put the first £6000 in the pot so it's only really children with more specific needs that will be raised. And then all the sencos decide between them which children get funding. If there are children in other schools with higher levels of need, then the funding will be prioritised for them. There's lots to all these processes but hope that helps explain it a little!
With regards to social care, you could argue educational neglect, but I'm really not sure they would meet the level 4 threshold for children's social care. I've seen a lot worse be turned down. Potentially it would meet level 3 which is targeted early help. This normally entails some sessions from the family service or recommendations for parents to go on courses but this is dependent on whether the parent agrees to engage.

My 3 year old starts school next year, he’s been at pre-school since September and they’re currently doing his EHCP ready for January deadlines. He will need to go to a special school (if he gets a place). I had to consent to everything and have so many people involved with his progression at the moment, he has a consultant paediatrician, 2 sencos at pre-school, a speech and language therapist and a specialist health visitor. It’s so intense but his pre-school have been amazing and the support has been incredible. Family etc have been harder work and a lot of them seem to think if he starts talking in the next 9 months then he’ll be fine and go to mainstream school but that’s not that case - it’s so much deeper than that but he struggles communicating non-verbally let alone verbally, he doesn’t interact at all with other children and his overall development is the same as a child of age 12-18 months. He started talking at 18 months but very suddenly stopped and regressed to baby babble and hasn’t spoken since. I’d give anything to hear him say mummy again but he just can’t and Rebecca is over there having a meltdown hiding in her “office” with a cup of tea because Woody won’t stop saying mummy and wants her attention. She really takes those boys for granted - she’s taken poor Woody out of pre-school for no apparent reason. The only children they get to socialise with is each other & especially at Woodys age they learn so much from each other. When I asked my sons pre-school how he was getting on with the other children they said that they adapt really quickly to non-verbal children and find their own ways of communicating with him, whether it’s facial expressions or passing him a toy or copying what he’s doing & my son will taking in these non-verbal cues, whether he chooses to respond to them or not he is still taking it all in & children absorb so much at this age. She’s just holding them both back.

 

[Don’tMindMe]

Hi guys really sorry don’t actually know what happened to my comment but yeah it’s not there anymore but more then happy to share the screen shots for you all to enjoy ….

p.s she knows who I am and that’s absolutely fine by me. I have nothing to hide, nothing to worry about. I wasn’t starting on her and like I said if she interprets everything I say as a dog that’s her problem not mine.

Edit: I used to go to school with the girl, we was in the same year, a few of the same classes. The girl has always been a nasty piece of work, full of herself, entitled. I know where she lives, I know where her child goes to school because my brother attends the same school. I reported her to Chanel mum and they was quick to know what my complaint was about but as soon as I mentioned her name they never got back to me, I’ve also reported her to education welfare as I don’t find it fair my disabled child can’t attend school because he isn’t welcome and I get threatened with fines but she can encourage other people to take there children out and receive nothing.

I was genuinely just letting her know the facts.

 

[Mummyto4boys]

That’s right everyone, life is short …. people are dying of Covid, Cancer and world hungry so just get on with it, enjoy life and look after yourself!!!!!

 

[Maddogsmum]

She’s not afraid of Covid because “people are dying every day from cancer and world hungry”

Oh well that’s ok then!
Honestly her brain cell must be so lonely. She’s so stupid. I don’t like that word but she really IS stupid.
Yes people die every day we all know that and personally I travel, go out etc now and don’t worry overly about Covid. BUT that doesn’t mean I’m not aware that it’s still very much an issue and you still need to be sensible.
She just comes across as so arrogant yet thick! I’ve never known any mum of 2 young children spend as much time/money on herself as she does: hair, nails, fillers, hair removal etc. Jesus most of us don’t have the time because we are actually doing things with our kids!
My grandchildren are similar ages to her boys and my daughter is a student midwife, her hubby works long days in agricultural contracting, they live on a farm ( not a working farm but have sheep, ponies, dogs cats and chickens and ducks!) and the kids have a few after school activities so they are always busy!! My daughter had her hair cut and coloured for first time in months the other week! She just doesn’t have time ( or the cash) for multiple beauty treatments and anyway, would rather spend the money on her kids!
Rebecca is so lazy like so many other influencers. They’ve had a little bit of success til they fucked it up and now think they are some sort of celebrity
Get a life woman!

 

[Clarity456]

Family etc have been harder work and a lot of them seem to think if he starts talking in the next 9 months then he’ll be fine and go to mainstream school but that’s not that case - it’s so much deeper than that

I feel this is beaver and bogtrotters problem to a T, they like to just explain it away as "kids develop in their own time" and are kidding themselves he will catch up eventually.

Whilst you could make that argument until he was around maybe 4/5 they really need to realize he's nearly 8 and they have to draw the line somewhere, accept he's not catching up to the other children and get the poor little mite the help he clearly desperately needs!

 

[Imhere123]

She’s not afraid of Covid because “people are dying every day from cancer and world hungry”

Oh well that’s ok then!
Honestly her brain cell must be so lonely. She’s so stupid. I don’t like that word but she really IS stupid.
Yes people die every day we all know that and personally I travel, go out etc now and don’t worry overly about Covid. BUT that doesn’t mean I’m not aware that it’s still very much an issue and you still need to be sensible.
She just comes across as so arrogant yet thick! I’ve never known any mum of 2 young children spend as much time/money on herself as she does: hair, nails, fillers, hair removal etc. Jesus most of us don’t have the time because we are actually doing things with our kids!
My grandchildren are similar ages to her boys and my daughter is a student midwife, her hubby works long days in agricultural contracting, they live on a farm ( not a working farm but have sheep, ponies, dogs cats and chickens and ducks!) and the kids have a few after school activities so they are always busy!! My daughter had her hair cut and coloured for first time in months the other week! She just doesn’t have time ( or the cash) for multiple beauty treatments and anyway, would rather spend the money on her kids!
Rebecca is so lazy like so many other influencers. They’ve had a little bit of success til they fucked it up and now think they are some sort of celebrity
Get a life woman!

She spends all that money on her appearance as well & still looks awful. Honestly the amount of treatments & pampering she has done, I would want to look like a movie star if I had all that done. But she just looks average at best! It’s bizarre. She must do it to try & keep up with what all the other instahuns are doing, but she gets the cheapest available options so quality just isn’t up to scratch. I would be fuming if I had spent a lot of money on hair, nails, lashes & whatever else but still looked like her. I suppose the phrase is ‘you can polish a turd’.

 

[heidilouxx]

I feel this is beaver and bogtrotters problem to a T, they like to just explain it away as "kids develop in their own time" and are kidding themselves he will catch up eventually.

Whilst you could make that argument until he was around maybe 4/5 they really need to realize he's nearly 8 and they have to draw the line somewhere, accept he's not catching up to the other children and get the poor little mite the help he clearly desperately needs!

Yeah exactly. As soon as I noticed my son wasn’t quite where he should be and picked up on the signs - he wouldn’t play with any toys (still doesn’t) only his abacus which of course is very repetitive, he was engrossed with the credits after a film or tv programme had finished, he wouldn’t watch any of the film but was glued to the tv once the credits started, he was obsessed with opening cupboards and drawers over and over, didn’t understand role play toys (cars, toy kitchen etc) I brought it up with our health visitor straight away and she had everything in place for when he was at the right age to start the process of getting him a diagnosis and the support he needs. My parents said when my sister was at school she wouldn’t say a word to anyone and they wondered if she needed help but she was just really shy and did talk at school eventually. My partners auntie was a late talker and his mums side of the family seem to think that him saying some words will fix everything. Even my partner said the same and I had to say him, he’s 3, he doesn’t know numbers, colours, his understanding of anything is very little. He is so different to a “normal” 3 year old. A friend of mine had her daughter 3 days before I had my son and she’s where she should be, she talks in full sentences and understands it all. She understands Father Christmas and the tooth fairy, she knows animals and their noises etc and has done since around 2 years old. my son doesnt know how to blow out candles on a birthday cake, or how to open presents or what they’re for. Either they’re completely oblivious to the fact that alfie really needs some support - which I don’t think they are, or they’re ignoring it entirely but as he gets older it’s going to be much harder for him to get a diagnosis and some support and by that point he’s already going to be quite far behind :/

 

[CrystalB]

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That’s right everyone, life is short …. people are dying of Covid, Cancer and world hungry so just get on with it, enjoy life and look after yourself!!!!!

She’s always been a covid denier! Said the media was just hyping it up at the beginning and that it was all a load of crap! Just as long as it’s not affecting her family then it’s easy for her to believe it’s ‘non existent’! She was quick to accept the vaccine just so she could fly off to tenners though wasn’t she

 

[Clairer86]

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That’s right everyone, life is short …. people are dying of Covid, Cancer and world hungry so just get on with it, enjoy life and look after yourself!!!!!

This is just more proof that she is a selfish bleep and doesnt give a flying duck about anyone other than herself.

She really is absolutely bleeping disgusting. Her attitude is disgusting, she looks disgusting, and is a disgusting "mother".

Sorry for the c word but this has really angered me.

 

[Flowerpower20]

My 3 year old starts school next year, he’s been at pre-school since September and they’re currently doing his EHCP ready for January deadlines. He will need to go to a special school (if he gets a place). I had to consent to everything and have so many people involved with his progression at the moment, he has a consultant paediatrician, 2 sencos at pre-school, a speech and language therapist and a specialist health visitor. It’s so intense but his pre-school have been amazing and the support has been incredible. Family etc have been harder work and a lot of them seem to think if he starts talking in the next 9 months then he’ll be fine and go to mainstream school but that’s not that case - it’s so much deeper than that but he struggles communicating non-verbally let alone verbally, he doesn’t interact at all with other children and his overall development is the same as a child of age 12-18 months. He started talking at 18 months but very suddenly stopped and regressed to baby babble and hasn’t spoken since. I’d give anything to hear him say mummy again but he just can’t and Rebecca is over there having a meltdown hiding in her “office” with a cup of tea because Woody won’t stop saying mummy and wants her attention. She really takes those boys for granted - she’s taken poor Woody out of pre-school for no apparent reason. The only children they get to socialise with is each other & especially at Woodys age they learn so much from each other. When I asked my sons pre-school how he was getting on with the other children they said that they adapt really quickly to non-verbal children and find their own ways of communicating with him, whether it’s facial expressions or passing him a toy or copying what he’s doing & my son will taking in these non-verbal cues, whether he chooses to respond to them or not he is still taking it all in & children absorb so much at this age. She’s just holding them both back.

I'm sorry to hear how difficult it has been with your little one but it sounds like the team around the family have been amazing for you. Family often find it harder to understand than those who work in those fields. I think often it's denial of wanting to believe that the child is different. But children with SEN can absolutely flourish and find their place in the world. Good luck with your little one

 

[heidilouxx]

I'm sorry to hear how difficult it has been with your little one but it sounds like the team around the family have been amazing for you. Family often find it harder to understand than those who work in those fields. I think often it's denial of wanting to believe that the child is different. But children with SEN can absolutely flourish and find their place in the world. Good luck with your little one

Thank you! He’s such a sweet, happy little boy. We’ve adapted to him and of course the way he sees and interprets the world is so different to ours it’s something we need to try and understand as much as we can. I think there’s some videos on YouTube showing how a person with autism can see things and it’s so hard to watch because it’s just so different to us. The thought of how society might be with him when he’s older terrifies me but it’s a bridge ill have to cross when we come to it! Yeah my neighbour my said that when she was younger, autism wasn’t a “thing”, it didn’t exist and children with additional needs were treated as though they were naughty. My partners dad hadn’t even heard of it we had to explain it to him!

 

[Imhere123]

Thank you! He’s such a sweet, happy little boy. We’ve adapted to him and of course the way he sees and interprets the world is so different to ours it’s something we need to try and understand as much as we can. I think there’s some videos on YouTube showing how a person with autism can see things and it’s so hard to watch because it’s just so different to us. The thought of how society might be with him when he’s older terrifies me but it’s a bridge ill have to cross when we come to it! Yeah my neighbour my said that when she was younger, autism wasn’t a “thing”, it didn’t exist and children with additional needs were treated as though they were naughty. My partners dad hadn’t even heard of it we had to explain it to him!

Funny you say that because I honestly don’t remember it ever being talked about when I was younger & I’m only an 80’s/90’s child, so not pensioner age or anything. It’s crazy actually isn’t it. I look back & think of some of the children I went to school with or friends of my mum who had children & these children were seen as naughty, but I can see now that they weren’t naughty at all, they were just misunderstood & probably not getting the help they needed. It’s so very recent that autism & similar conditions are getting the attention it deserves!

 

[Its-all-about-me!]

Exactly this, the school staff were basically talked about as "trolls" too. As a mother of an autistic child myself, to be perfectly honest, I don't think Rebecca and Steve have the Intelect or capacity to spot the signs for themselves. No parent would ever knowingly ignore the glaringly obvious signs if they were there. They see what's written here and fight back against what people are saying every single time when it's blatantly obvious Alfie needs significant help . Even people on here who are saying that they are spotting signs in Alfie because it's exactly the same as their own child with additional needs. I honestly believe these pair aren't capable of seeing their child could thrive with additional support because they didn't get it themselves as children and are now failing in life so badly because they were left to their own devices without additional support. It's all just awful parenting down the generations

Wasn't one of the things the teacher pointed out was his speech and they couldn't really understand him when he was talking and Rebecca's come back was "well I can understand him just fine". Well yes you are his mother I should hope you can understand him. My son is nearly 3 and he talks away lots no-one would understand what he is saying but us close family especially me his mother!

 

[sunnystorm88]

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That’s right everyone, life is short …. people are dying of Covid, Cancer and world hungry so just get on with it, enjoy life and look after yourself!!!!!

Maybe she thinks because she’s vaccinated and covid is a load of hype like she said she won’t get it. I’m double vaccinated but I still got covid, does she think she is invincible?
Her answer sounds so self obsessed and like she doesn’t care about anyone but herself! Where is the compassion!?

 

[Each_peach]

Hi guys really sorry don’t actually know what happened to my comment but yeah it’s not there anymore but more then happy to share the screen shots for you all to enjoy ….

p.s she knows who I am and that’s absolutely fine by me. I have nothing to hide, nothing to worry about. I wasn’t starting on her and like I said if she interprets everything I say as a dog that’s her problem not mine.

Edit: I used to go to school with the girl, we was in the same year, a few of the same classes. The girl has always been a nasty piece of work, full of herself, entitled. I know where she lives, I know where her child goes to school because my brother attends the same school. I reported her to Chanel mum and they was quick to know what my complaint was about but as soon as I mentioned her name they never got back to me, I’ve also reported her to education welfare as I don’t find it fair my disabled child can’t attend school because he isn’t welcome and I get threatened with fines but she can encourage other people to take there children out and receive nothing.

I was genuinely just letting her know the facts.

She's absolutely obsessed with people not following her, it's the first thing she ever comments on "you don't even follow me but watch my stories" - cos it's funny to watch your tit show of a life hunipot . She dunt give 2 shits though . It was deffo Re13 replying off gryns page as well, silly bleep.

 

[viewtube]

Hi guys really sorry don’t actually know what happened to my comment but yeah it’s not there anymore but more then happy to share the screen shots for you all to enjoy ….

p.s she knows who I am and that’s absolutely fine by me. I have nothing to hide, nothing to worry about. I wasn’t starting on her and like I said if she interprets everything I say as a dog that’s her problem not mine.

Edit: I used to go to school with the girl, we was in the same year, a few of the same classes. The girl has always been a nasty piece of work, full of herself, entitled. I know where she lives, I know where her child goes to school because my brother attends the same school. I reported her to Chanel mum and they was quick to know what my complaint was about but as soon as I mentioned her name they never got back to me, I’ve also reported her to education welfare as I don’t find it fair my disabled child can’t attend school because he isn’t welcome and I get threatened with fines but she can encourage other people to take there children out and receive nothing.

I was genuinely just letting her know the facts.

Hysterical the Steve thinks people are jealous of her. He forgets the people who knew her at school, will know her for the slapper she really is, he's still with her because of the boys, he knows she will bleed him dry. He treats her with contempt, he is her biggest Troll. I would imagine anyone with half an ounce of common sense, can see her for the lazy, attention seeking, illiterate liar that she is. Her sheep who creep round her, probably have the same values as her and don't know any better

 

[ChubClubThug]

Suh suh jealous of a greasy pig faced mole, with a receding relationship and hairline, who gets to bash beetroot beaver every single night, on a wooden framed bed (that wouldn't look out of place in Jesus's stable) with the same bedding on it since that shack was built.

 

[freakshake]

Funny you

Suh suh jealous of a greasy pig faced mole, with a receding relationship and hairline, who gets to bash beetroot beaver every single night, on a wooden framed bed (that wouldn't look out of place in Jesus's stable) with the same bedding on it since that shack was built.

Nail hit on the head there

 

[Clarity456]

I reckon theres definitely some truth to the theory that Dingles took Woody out of nursery cos otherwise Steves said she'd have to get a normal job where some horrible troll would be telling her what to do.

Let us know in the next "Q&A" wont you eggybegs.

 

[k567]

How can anyone so average love themselves so much! Smug witch. I see that same filthy rag is hanging from the shelf, almost a week now, grubby skank!

Wtf colour are her lips meant to be? Smug cow

Hi guys really sorry don’t actually know what happened to my comment but yeah it’s not there anymore but more then happy to share the screen shots for you all to enjoy ….

p.s she knows who I am and that’s absolutely fine by me. I have nothing to hide, nothing to worry about. I wasn’t starting on her and like I said if she interprets everything I say as a dog that’s her problem not mine.

Edit: I used to go to school with the girl, we was in the same year, a few of the same classes. The girl has always been a nasty piece of work, full of herself, entitled. I know where she lives, I know where her child goes to school because my brother attends the same school. I reported her to Chanel mum and they was quick to know what my complaint was about but as soon as I mentioned her name they never got back to me, I’ve also reported her to education welfare as I don’t find it fair my disabled child can’t attend school because he isn’t welcome and I get threatened with fines but she can encourage other people to take there children out and receive nothing.

I was genuinely just letting her know the facts.

What success exactly are you supposed to be jealous of?? Hilarious