'Kindness is magic'.......
Well Rebecca, it is isn't it? So maybe instead of focusing on what other people do and say how about trying your best with being kind.
You see in life things work both ways not just when it suits the situation for you.
Theres many occasions you haven't acted so kindly;
You weren't exactly acting kindly or in a sympathetic way during a pandemic when thousands were losing their life- you were quick to put your non scientific opinion out there despite people suffering. You have slated other products that were rival to yours in order to boast about yours- they are still someone's products.
At a good guess I would think that living with someone like steve - there must have been at least one occasion where hes made comments about people in passing in front of you- have you laughed along? Did you question him to why he would say such a thing??
Life works both ways, not just when its convenient for your benefit so let's not keep splashing kindness quotes around until we've made sure our own hands are clean, yeah??