I highly doubt a girl would get with a sexually aggressive, married man just to avoid being branded racist however, he needs reporting to HR. You can say you don’t want any action taken and that it was years ago however you want it logged in case it comes up again. Encourage the other girls to do it too.
It may be that they even give him a warning or a covert warning and he doesn’t ever do it again.
His wife will have no involvement whatsoever unless he chooses to tell her, they legally cannot involve her and if they did they’d be in serious trouble.
He sounds like a right hole and he’s somehow blackmailed you all into compliance for fear of being called a racist. duck that! Let him tell people why you’re a racist then, he’d have to expose his own predatory behaviour
It may be that they even give him a warning or a covert warning and he doesn’t ever do it again.
His wife will have no involvement whatsoever unless he chooses to tell her, they legally cannot involve her and if they did they’d be in serious trouble.
He sounds like a right hole and he’s somehow blackmailed you all into compliance for fear of being called a racist. duck that! Let him tell people why you’re a racist then, he’d have to expose his own predatory behaviour