PTWM #99 Back at herpes lodge with Josh, whatever did happen to the PayPal dosh?

[Welshiewelsh]

This what she shared could be my daughter at 15 she did starve herself and ended up in a eating disorder unit for 8 months, shes now 21 at uni,house sharing,something I never thought I would see!

 

[Jellybean093]

She didn't even put it on instagram, apart from the brief stories. She wrote a post that she had the weekend off social media. I just can't comprehend that they are having another weekend away, that he's not even allowed to do his hobby without her being surgically attached to him.

Can't believe Edie giving Wilby sherbet so early in the morning too and no responsible adult around to monitor, that stuff makes me choke! He's going to have no teeth left by the time he's 3.

It’s tir for tat. ‘You can’t have a weekend off without me having a weekend off. Let’s just do it together!’
2 weekends without your kids. No wonder at one point, W didn’t even acknowledge her coming home after the poverty tour.
My husband is away next weekend doing a charity walk, and, although I will obviously miss him, I cannot wait to starfish in bed and do nothing all weekend. He’s always on the go, so gets bored if we are stuck in the house. They are so co-dependant on each other and you can see she does trust him as far as she could throw him. Been a naughty boy Joshy

 

[MrsOgre]

Wow she has classed the poverty porn tour as work and posted about Bekind going into the school because there was no adult around to do that. Why aren't the huns seeing what she is saying, they can't be that blind to her bullshit?

By the way I'm having a few days away on my own soon and I trust my husband and he trusts me, that's a normal healthy relationship. Not like the toxic siamese twins of Paignton.

This is how to be an appalling mother who does not give a flying duck about any of her kids. And the huns lap it up.

 

[Newbie mcnewface]

Wow she has classed the poverty porn tour as work and posted about Bekind going into the school because there was no adult around to do that. Why aren't the huns seeing what she is saying, they can't be that blind to her bullshit?

By the way I'm having a few days away on my own soon and I trust my husband and he trusts me, that's a normal healthy relationship. Not like the toxic siamese twins of Paignton.

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Wow if things were bad at school at the time for Lula why on earth did she swan about the country in a pandemic ?? What a cruel mother.

 

[MrsA99]

The grid post about T, like someone else has said, it’s great that she’s happier at a new school and even though T says she’s ok for people to know about her possible diagnosis, it just feels like she’s (R) is using it to gain sympathy and it’s too intrusive.
Also, she wrote this , saying she was devastated and helpless, yet she laughed at T like a mean girl, along with Betsy when she had a meltdown and threw her iPad down about some maths she couldn’t do! She filmed it and put it in her stories for content! Not the behaviour of someone who loves her children ‘so much, the hardest ever’!
Oh! And in that story Betsy was the one who was going to write a note to the teacher!
Helpless?? Lazy more like!

Also, there was no reason for her not to go home while she was away ‘working’ back in May when T was ‘utterly broken’ . It wasn’t a life and death project, Jordan could have carried on alone. She wasn’t under contract. It was a vanity project. It’s not Betsy’s job, at 16, to ring the school, arrange an appointment and sort out T’s school problems! Great that she cares, but not her job!
Why do her followers think she’s such an ‘amazing’ mother? I don’t get it.

 

[Mollieben]

Leaving an 11 year old with no responsible adult for a week?? Surely school must have flagged that up as a concern??

 

[Lucyinthesky88]

The grid post about T, like someone else has said, it’s great that she’s happier at a new school and even though T says she’s ok for people to know about her possible diagnosis, it just feels like she’s (R) is using it to gain sympathy and it’s too intrusive.
Also, she wrote this , saying she was devastated and helpless, yet she laughed at T like a mean girl, along with Betsy when she had a meltdown and threw her iPad down about some maths she couldn’t do! She filmed it and put it in her stories for content! Not the behaviour of someone who loves her children ‘so much, the hardest ever’!
Oh! And in that story Betsy was the one who was going to write a note to the teacher!
Helpless?? Lazy more like!

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Also, there was no reason for her not to go home while she was away ‘working’ back in May when T was ‘utterly broken’ . It wasn’t a life and death project, Jordan could have carried on alone. She wasn’t under contract. It was a vanity project. It’s not Betsy’s job to ring the school, arrange an appointment and sort out T’s school problems! Great that she cares, but not her job!
Why do her followers think she’s such an ‘amazing’ mother? I don’t get it.

Rachel must know she has to say it was work because the school otherwise would have questioned why a year 7 pupil’s 16 year old sibling was requesting to meet to discuss their problems. It’s not usual behaviour for a family who are together and where there are two parents.

The poverty porn tour was 100% unnecessary and even if she believes it was work, surely the children come first still and Josh could have at least stayed with them to have meetings instead of Betsy?

 

[Newbie mcnewface]

If be kind rang the school wanting an urgent meeting in rachets absence would that not have raised a cause for concern with inter agencies that parents were absent in a time Lula was going through a trauma ??!

 

[FridaK]

You said what I was trying to say when I read this post. I found a reputable hypnotherapist to cure my driving anxiety and it only took one session. This charlatan that Rachel sees is a very bad example of hypnotherapy. She's basically paying a fortune to lie back for an hour and listen to relaxing music and getting told to relax. The hypnosis I had, I was wide awake and talking constantly. I think I worked out she must have paid about £6000 and it's done nothing for her.

It can be delivered by qualified registered psychologists as a complimentary treatment to enhance whatever medical treatment a patient is receiving. Also, as in your case, a way to alleviate a specific phobia if the the persons mind is open to suggestion. Though again, I’d only ever recommend that if the hypnotherapy was being administered by a BPS registered Psychologist.

The thought of someone who has done a 3 month course delivered by a company advertised on Google, without so much a psychology GCSE, delving into the mind space of a person who is mentally vulnerable leaves me cold. Though that is my personal opinion, as with everything, people see things differently

 

[MrsA99]

This what she shared could be my daughter at 15 she did starve herself and ended up in a eating disorder unit for 8 months, shes now 21 at uni,house sharing,something I never thought I would see!

It must be so hard to diagnose a girl on the spectrum
I don’t know about anyone else, but I felt some of this when I was at school

Glad your daughter sounds like she is in a better place and doing well x

 

[Ooops26]

Okay . I’m glad you found it helpful. I personally would never advise anyone displaying the need for psychiatric intervention to access hypnotherapy as a treatment before seeing a GP.

It’s an alternative treatment and unregulated in the UK. Although, I do believe it can be helpful in breaking habits if you have the kind of personality that is open to suggestion. Each to their own, it’s just not something I would engage in.

Yes, you have to be careful when finding one, whilst it’s not regulated as such, genuine ones are usually registered with a professional body, you can find a local one via the NHS website, they have a link to those that are registered with organisations that are backed by the PSA, lots have medical backgrounds such as counselling or physchology. It’s not recommended for people with serious mental illness such as psychosis or personality disorders but often works really well for anxiety and some PTSD’s etc, not just habit breaking - just because it’s currently seen as “alternative” doesn’t mean it doesn’t work, and thankfully GP’s do often recommend it as a private option if someone’s circumstances allow for it. But like you say, each to their own, I was highly sceptical before trying it, but thankfully did a lot of research based on someone else’s recommendation and now with it having been successful on my own issue (and mine wasn’t for a habit) I obviously have a personal insight that I didn’t have before giving it a go. Basically my (long winded!) post was just to say people shouldn’t write it off based on PTWM’s use of it.

 

[Jellybean093]

If be kind rang the school wanting an urgent meeting in rachets absence would that not have raised a cause for concern with inter agencies that parents were absent in a time Lula was going through a trauma ??!

Yes. And she thinks it’s the trolls ringing SS

 

[LyraBalaqua]

She cannot wait to get away from her children.

At any given opportunity she’s off the mark and away. The pair of them are terrible parents , she gave no shits about Lula when she swanned around the country during the pandemic and Titwank did as he’s told because that other gormless no mark Jordan doesn’t drive.


They are both cunts and I hope they get stuck in traffic and miss the bird show, I give no fucks.

 

[MrsOgre]

This is only been posted to fb

 

[FridaK]

Yes, you have to be careful when finding one, whilst it’s not regulated as such, genuine ones are usually registered with a professional body, you can find a local one via the NHS website, they have a link to those that are registered with organisations that are backed by the PSA, lots have medical backgrounds such as counselling or physchology. It’s not recommended for people with serious mental illness such as psychosis or personality disorders but often works really well for anxiety and some PTSD’s etc, not just habit breaking - just because it’s currently seen as “alternative” doesn’t mean it doesn’t work, and thankfully GP’s do often recommend it as a private option if someone’s circumstances allow for it. But like you say, each to their own, I was highly sceptical before trying it, but thankfully did a lot of research based on someone else’s recommendation and now with it having been successful on my own issue (and mine wasn’t for a habit) I obviously have a personal insight that I didn’t have before giving it a go. Basically my (long winded!) post was just to say people shouldn’t write it off based on PTWM’s use of it.

If you look at my post in response to @MrsOgre I’ve just said pretty much the same thing.

In any case I think we can all agree that Rachael would benefit more from a course of CBT to help with her lack of empathy and inability to put anyone before herself. Plus a course of intense parenting classes to help her manage the needs of the kids and stop using them as a commodity, rather than hypnotherapy .

 

[Ooops26]

If you look at my post in response to @MrsOgre I’ve just said pretty much the same thing.

In any case I think we can all agree that Rachael would benefit more from a course of CBT to help with her lack of empathy and inability to put anyone before herself. Plus a course of intense parenting classes to help her manage the needs of the kids and stop using them as a commodity, rather than hypnotherapy .

Yeah, I saw that after I had posted my ramble.

 

[MrsOgre]

She's loving the attention this is bringing to her. It's not healthy or ok at all. It's not raising awareness. She's now reposting tags of huns praising her. Lula is not just something to be run alongside the endless adverts. I hope the school are monitoring this along with Rachel's numerous breaks away.

 

[Welshiewelsh]

It must be so hard to diagnose a girl on the spectrum
I don’t know about anyone else, but I felt some of this when I was at school

Glad your daughter sounds like she is in a better place and doing well x

Thank you so many girls with anorexia are on the spectrum, with my daughter she became obsessed with what number her weight should be. She loves uni not going to say which one but its a drama based one she has loved the theatre since she was little, And on this course she’s met people who are more like her so she can be herself x

 

[MrsOgre]

Rachel's post and then the person she tagged who is helping her

 

[Jellybean093]

Rachel's post and then the person she tagged who is helping her

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Im so glad W is getting the support he needs, as from what I hear from friends, it’s a very long process.
I hope she noticed things herself, rather than the stuff she has read on here