In my opinion, it’s not fair to judge Astrids capability of looking after Wilby based on how she looks.
The sad reality is, he will probably thrive more with Astrid who will play with him and get him up on his feet rather than his Mother who seems to hand him to his siblings like it’s pass the parcel, all whilst she either sits on the sofa filming or enjoying afternoon delights with Josh.
As for last nights stories with Josh and the cupboards. My mind is blown. Firstly, who the hell does Josh think he is throwing the children’s friends belongings out of the door to be ruined or even stolen? That’s disgusting behaviour. Teach your own children a lesson but those friends are guests in your house, their parents probably don’t have a PayPal pot to dip in to in order to replace the belongings you see fit to trash.
If your children don’t learn on the first time of asking, it’s quite easy really. Stop buying them shoes for £100 a pair. Buy a cheap, unbranded pair and see how long it takes them to learn the value of money and possessions then. Facts are, they don’t look after anything or respect it, because they get given every damn thing they want either gifted or from the Bank Of Gullable (that’s our PayPal donations to you and me) they only have to run to Mum and she will buy it. The children don’t appreciate anything because sadly, when your Mum leaves you at 4 years old and you do hardcore drugs, sleep around and prey on vulnerable women to grow your following, it means you give your children what they want, when they want. Y’know, all whilst sobbing because you want them to have what you didn’t.
All you have to do Rach, is discipline your kids, make them put their shoes away and that’s it. All without whacking a phone in their face, telling the world what a bad Dad Josh is and filming it for the world to humiliate him.
Nothing beats a passive agressive bit of husband bashing does it? Gaslighting Rach. Look it up, although with your apparent expertise, you should already know.
Just to add, I feel for the people’s who’s parents or husbands threw their stuff outside as part of a stream of abuse, don’t worry about triggers eh Rach, those vulnerable women are disposable now aren’t they. (Just like the nappies you claimed you wouldn’t use, but do)