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we’re all Liz, right? (i don’t have kids but i’ll be a Liz when i do!)
Weather was lovely, forecast was horrid rain but it was just windy and a sudden cold chill.That's across from my hometown
Sadly I ballsed up the sat nav so we didn't manage to get a close up boat trip (probably wise as sea looked choppy
) or visit the Mary Rose but that is one almighty big Navy aircraft carrier.Omg the Cartman parody made me crease!
I don’t know you, but I love you. (The hardest ever)Thing is, children who actually ARE in need of specialist school placements, aren’t getting them. A friend of mine works with autistic kids in mainstream primary school, who would benefit from a specialist school and there are no places. So I will be shocked to tit if Wilby gets one. Although that could be area dependent, I guess.Been away for a while because she was boring me. I see she’s still a liar then:
“Forgetting” about school applications.
Magically having a place at a school visit the very next morning.
Her fake tears needing to be pointed out.
Betsy moved there for a job yet hasn’t had the interview yet.
Oh and still pretending that Wilby is too severely autistic to manage mainstream school.
By the way, seeing him in his little zebra costume chipped some ice off my cold, black heart. He’s absolutely adorable tbf.
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Liz here for sure
What happened to her nose? Broken in a fight? It looks like its trying to leave her face..Spot the difference
I don't know if this has been mentioned - sorry- but on paetron the other day she said that the nursery had mentioned that W was very interested in another child's ham sandwich, so asked her to pack him one.
She said she would, but he would never eat it, as all he ever eats are sausage rolls (and then only the meat as he picks all the pastry off).
So she packed him a ham sandwich - didn't cut it up, but asked the staff to cut it so it was the same shape as the child's sandwich that he showed an interest in - convincing herself that if there was any chance of him eating it at all it would have to be exactly the same as the other child's sandwich (he's autistic you see
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So she picks him up after nursery and is told that he ate the whole sandwich. The nursery teacher was surprised as he had also just eaten a banana and an orange.
R said she hadn't packed fruit as he never eats it, and the nursery lady said he always was interested in her fruit so she takes extra in for W every day.
R was mortified and said W makes her out to be a liar.
So he can and does eat a normal healthy diet when encouraged by those doing the same around him, eating at the same time as him. Sounds like she can't blame his autism for his appalling diet anymore, and she needs to realise that having him eat beige food alone in his room in front of an ipad while she puts her make up on in the loft, rather than engaging with him and eating with him at the table might be her fault, and not autism.
She said she would, but he would never eat it, as all he ever eats are sausage rolls (and then only the meat as he picks all the pastry off).
So she packed him a ham sandwich - didn't cut it up, but asked the staff to cut it so it was the same shape as the child's sandwich that he showed an interest in - convincing herself that if there was any chance of him eating it at all it would have to be exactly the same as the other child's sandwich (he's autistic you see
)So she picks him up after nursery and is told that he ate the whole sandwich. The nursery teacher was surprised as he had also just eaten a banana and an orange.
R said she hadn't packed fruit as he never eats it, and the nursery lady said he always was interested in her fruit so she takes extra in for W every day.
R was mortified and said W makes her out to be a liar.
So he can and does eat a normal healthy diet when encouraged by those doing the same around him, eating at the same time as him. Sounds like she can't blame his autism for his appalling diet anymore, and she needs to realise that having him eat beige food alone in his room in front of an ipad while she puts her make up on in the loft, rather than engaging with him and eating with him at the table might be her fault, and not autism.
Her food parenting is awful, She’s only ever given him basic food and beigeI don't know if this has been mentioned - sorry- but on paetron the other day she said that the nursery had mentioned that W was very interested in another child's ham sandwich, so asked her to pack him one.
She said she would, but he would never eat it, as all he ever eats are sausage rolls (and then only the meat as he picks all the pastry off).
So she packed him a ham sandwich - didn't cut it up, but asked the staff to cut it so it was the same shape as the child's sandwich that he showed an interest in - convincing herself that if there was any chance of him eating it at all it would have to be exactly the same as the other child's sandwich (he's autistic you see
So she picks him up after nursery and is told that he ate the whole sandwich. The nursery teacher was surprised as he had also just eaten a banana and an orange.
R said she hadn't packed fruit as he never eats it, and the nursery lady said he always was interested in her fruit so she takes extra in for W every day.
R was mortified and said W makes her out to be a liar.
So he can and does eat a normal healthy diet when encouraged by those doing the same around him, eating at the same time as him. Sounds like she can't blame his autism for his appalling diet anymore, and she needs to realise that having him eat beige food alone in his room in front of an ipad while she puts her make up on in the loft, rather than engaging with him and eating with him at the table might be her fault, and not autism.
I think she has a fear of him choking, Because she gives him the same food over and over. It duznt seem to have any bulk to it. His dinner the other night that she showed (and laughed at) was pain sausage. Surely if Super chef is cooking for everyone then give him some of that. She always has an excuse of he won’t eat it, But in reality she’s never tried
I think the only fear she has is that he'll quite happily eat everything everyone else is eating and prove her to be a liar again. He's already a non verbal child who talks , she can't have him eating food that she's read autistic children don't like as well. I also think she is a big lazy bleep who can't be bothered to give him proper food at the table, because that would take some effort on her part
My daughter is autistic and has always eaten pretty much anything put in front of her.
I know I’m lucky as not all autistic kids do, but yet again she’s clung onto her autism traits bingo card and just said he won’t eat it!
Get him out that high chair, sit him down for a proper tea with everyone and stop treating him like he’s 12 months old!
He’s being held back and it’s not fair poor lad. He definitely has ASD traits, as does his dad, but she’s putting limits on him, not his autism.
My daughter leads a “normal” life, whatever that is, but the only thing holding that lovely lad back is her at this point.
Happy Friday Trolls 🧌
I know I’m lucky as not all autistic kids do, but yet again she’s clung onto her autism traits bingo card and just said he won’t eat it!
Get him out that high chair, sit him down for a proper tea with everyone and stop treating him like he’s 12 months old!
He’s being held back and it’s not fair poor lad. He definitely has ASD traits, as does his dad, but she’s putting limits on him, not his autism.
My daughter leads a “normal” life, whatever that is, but the only thing holding that lovely lad back is her at this point.
Happy Friday Trolls 🧌
So he has sausage rolls for lunch at nursery, then a sausage for his tea when he gets home?I don't know if this has been mentioned - sorry- but on paetron the other day she said that the nursery had mentioned that W was very interested in another child's ham sandwich, so asked her to pack him one.
She said she would, but he would never eat it, as all he ever eats are sausage rolls (and then only the meat as he picks all the pastry off).
So she packed him a ham sandwich - didn't cut it up, but asked the staff to cut it so it was the same shape as the child's sandwich that he showed an interest in - convincing herself that if there was any chance of him eating it at all it would have to be exactly the same as the other child's sandwich (he's autistic you see
So she picks him up after nursery and is told that he ate the whole sandwich. The nursery teacher was surprised as he had also just eaten a banana and an orange.
R said she hadn't packed fruit as he never eats it, and the nursery lady said he always was interested in her fruit so she takes extra in for W every day.
R was mortified and said W makes her out to be a liar.
So he can and does eat a normal healthy diet when encouraged by those doing the same around him, eating at the same time as him. Sounds like she can't blame his autism for his appalling diet anymore, and she needs to realise that having him eat beige food alone in his room in front of an ipad while she puts her make up on in the loft, rather than engaging with him and eating with him at the table might be her fault, and not autism.
When your two year old pretend autistic child is your biggest troll.I don't know if this has been mentioned - sorry- but on paetron the other day she said that the nursery had mentioned that W was very interested in another child's ham sandwich, so asked her to pack him one.
She said she would, but he would never eat it, as all he ever eats are sausage rolls (and then only the meat as he picks all the pastry off).
So she packed him a ham sandwich - didn't cut it up, but asked the staff to cut it so it was the same shape as the child's sandwich that he showed an interest in - convincing herself that if there was any chance of him eating it at all it would have to be exactly the same as the other child's sandwich (he's autistic you see
So she picks him up after nursery and is told that he ate the whole sandwich. The nursery teacher was surprised as he had also just eaten a banana and an orange.
R said she hadn't packed fruit as he never eats it, and the nursery lady said he always was interested in her fruit so she takes extra in for W every day.
R was mortified and said W makes her out to be a liar.
So he can and does eat a normal healthy diet when encouraged by those doing the same around him, eating at the same time as him. Sounds like she can't blame his autism for his appalling diet anymore, and she needs to realise that having him eat beige food alone in his room in front of an ipad while she puts her make up on in the loft, rather than engaging with him and eating with him at the table might be her fault, and not autism.
Knowing how lazy and clueless she is with her (non-existing)- parenting she probably tried fruit once - he kicked off and fruit was labelled as no-go. My daughter is almost 8 and sometimes suddenly doesn’t like something and either way suddenly eats food she used to refuse. It’s about to keep offering and more importantly meals together. My daughter luckily was never overly fussy with food and only had phases. When the nursery told me my daughter ate food she wouldn’t normally eat at home I was delighted certainly not thinking my daughter makes me look like a liar. But then I am not a self-involved twit..
Her negativity always with Wilby really grinds on me. He is such a cute little boy and they fail him so massively. I just want to scoop him up and give him all the care and attention he needs and craves.
Its been over 3 years since I joined tattle and I can’t believe that there are still ppl seeing these bumbling idiots as parenting goal …! All I see are red flags and failed kids.
Her negativity always with Wilby really grinds on me. He is such a cute little boy and they fail him so massively. I just want to scoop him up and give him all the care and attention he needs and craves.
Its been over 3 years since I joined tattle and I can’t believe that there are still ppl seeing these bumbling idiots as parenting goal …! All I see are red flags and failed kids.
There’s no way she’s scared of him choking in my opinion; I had a friend who was paranoid about it and she would never even turn away from her child while they ate, nevermind leave them completely unsupervised to eat while lay on the floor. (Also those discs of sausage were actual choking hazards!)Her food parenting is awful, She’s only ever given him basic food and beige
I think she has a fear of him choking, Because she gives him the same food over and over. It duznt seem to have any bulk to it. His dinner the other night that she showed (and laughed at) was pain sausage. Surely if Super chef is cooking for everyone then give him some of that. She always has an excuse of he won’t eat it, But in reality she’s never tried
They are neglecting that poor kid and it breaks my heart to watch, he’s such a lovely lad and they’re going to hold him back at every turn
She definitely doesn't have a fear of him choking because she let's him run around with a lollypop in his mouth and is left unattended while hebeats solid foods!!
I’ve just reread the above comment, please tell me she didn’t actually say her 3 year old was making her out to be a liar??
This does take perseverance with autistic children and she can’t be bothered. My son is autistic and would eat all types of fruit at after school club but wouldn’t at home. It’s a massive learning curve with neuro diversity and you often take one step forward and two steps back. Instead of crying and posting intrusive videos five years old to sell a book she needs to concentrate on her vulnerable three year old who needs her.I don't know if this has been mentioned - sorry- but on paetron the other day she said that the nursery had mentioned that W was very interested in another child's ham sandwich, so asked her to pack him one.
She said she would, but he would never eat it, as all he ever eats are sausage rolls (and then only the meat as he picks all the pastry off).
So she packed him a ham sandwich - didn't cut it up, but asked the staff to cut it so it was the same shape as the child's sandwich that he showed an interest in - convincing herself that if there was any chance of him eating it at all it would have to be exactly the same as the other child's sandwich (he's autistic you see
So she picks him up after nursery and is told that he ate the whole sandwich. The nursery teacher was surprised as he had also just eaten a banana and an orange.
R said she hadn't packed fruit as he never eats it, and the nursery lady said he always was interested in her fruit so she takes extra in for W every day.
R was mortified and said W makes her out to be a liar.
So he can and does eat a normal healthy diet when encouraged by those doing the same around him, eating at the same time as him. Sounds like she can't blame his autism for his appalling diet anymore, and she needs to realise that having him eat beige food alone in his room in front of an ipad while she puts her make up on in the loft, rather than engaging with him and eating with him at the table might be her fault, and not autism.
I have known kids to eat stuff at nursery they don’t at home, probs cause their peers are. My toddler can be fussy but the thing is I keep offering these foods and she changes what she likes all the time, if she tries a bit and doesn’t like it that’s fine, I’ll cook up something else. It’s like they don’t even cook the same meals or even offer him any
Wasn't she in the news a few years ago for all the incredible, healthy after school snacks she made for them?
Yes here it is.
Mummy blogger's genius trick to get her children to eat fruit
Mummy blogger Rachaele Hambleton, from Devon, told how she tricked her 'five mini hooligans' into eating bowls of healthy chopped fruit after repeated requests for cake and junk food.
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