Congratulations!Hello all!! My first time posting here. Just found out we are pregnant, 4 weeks 1 day after trying for a few months. Excited and nervous. Baby is due 8 September if all goes well. I am however, meant to be a bridesmaid for my friend at her wedding on 14th September. This is my first baby so I’m curious to know people’s opinions -Is this a write off? I want nothing more to be there on her day so I am dreading telling her… I also have a very short cervix due to early cervical cancer at 26. Likely to need a stitch so that does add another layer of complexity!
re the wedding, Give it a few weeks and tell her. It depends on the kind of wedding, how chill your friend is and the expense involved to both sides but personally I would drop out of the wedding party and just try to be a guest.
As a first time mum, I wouldn’t want to be parted from baby for an extended period or want baby around that many people so soon after birth. If they’re doing an expensive sit down meal it might even be a case of trying to just go for the ceremony or after party or if it’s at a hotel, getting a room and having a grandparent (if poss) with baby there you can pop back and forth between.
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