I feel a lot like this!Is anyone really struggling with wanting to get stuff done but not being able to?
I desperately want the nursery somewhat complete (I’m almost 22 weeks so know there isn’t a rush, but trying to work around busy times at work etc) but we’ve got so much to sort out in the room as it’s currently just a dumping ground.
Lots of the sorting needs a tip run, and I can’t move the big items of furniture myself, even pre-pregnancy (we’re talking big wardrobes, bookcases etc) but then I feel bad nagging at my partner to do it because he doesn’t have the same sense of urgency. But then if I asked my dad to help, my OH would worry that my parents thought he wasn’t doing enough. But then if my OH’s parents help, mine feel pushed out.
I feel like I’m trying to please everyone and would normally be fiercely independent and find some way to do it but I feel useless and a nag.
Already feel like I am “nesting” and I am only 25 weeks tomorrow! I find it hard to believe it’s going to get worse