My Mam is a bit like Poppy's. She isn't touchy-feely and only really gives me a hug when I'm saying goodbye to her. It's the way she was brought up; my maternal Grandparents didn't show affection that way either.Different people have different boundaries it doesnât make someone any less of a mother. They are clearly close.
Poppyâs financial situation is mysterious but I guess weâll never know for sure unless she tells us how she earns her keep!
My Mam shows her love in other ways - by listening and being supportive and patient; creating things for us: baking, sewing, knitting etc. However, she has become more affectionate since her Grandchildren were born. She often has them sitting on her knee and gives them cuddles.
My Dad is the affectionate one.