I agree, but also, whenever this conversation happens it's people who said that they said 'gay' and maybe 'm ong' or something. I'm in no way saying those words are ok, I think I posted about my Mum yelling at me for using 'gay' to describe something when I was like 13. But I find it very weird that people seem to go 'oh well we all said 'gay' back then so it's the same as Polly saying 'negro', 'faggot', etc'. It's clearly not the same?! I don't think I've even seen one single Tweet where she 'only' used gay in a derogatory way, what she's said goes far beyond that that to me even comparing these two things is just a nonsense?