Jesus Christ that’s a paragraph. I can’t begin to address half of what you said coz I have things to do in my day but
1) the ‘dysfunctional family’ thing was a direct quote from Polly herself
2) she was 18 in many of her comments which is a whole adult, she was running a business and taking minority groups’ money when spewing this hatred
3) it’s about more than just her racism, but also her abhorrent views on fox hunting and horse racing and general animal cruelty which were confirmed to still stand as of Boxing Day 2021
4) I don’t think I can forgive anyone for ever making a rape joke as someone who has been a victim of rape, or ever look past someone ever saying they wanted to stamp on an Ethiopian child’s head
as for the apology point, I agree, it’s hard for someone to sometimes properly apologise. But for one she’s still hiding this behind a private account and not posting on her business account, which is where it matters
I also think people should be allowed to want nothing to do with someone after this. People are valid in saying she can’t come back from this. I’m not in the wrong to say I won’t ever believe she’s changed. It’s hurtful to read that knowing you gave money to someone.
think that covers it.