Sorry for the delay, trying to get time in between everything else. So I messaged R back in mid December asking for advice. She advocates herself as an ambassador for women escaping abuse, so I reached out for support as I didn’t have anyone to turn to. She ignored my message so I left it a while before messaging her again. She ignored that too, and while I was a little embarrassed and let down, I thought she is a busy mum so I’ll not get too offended. But then about an hour later she posted an ad to her stories flogging something silly to make some money. That really upset and belittled me. That making money was more important than replying to someone who was reaching out for help. I didn’t even ask for anything, I just asked for advice. Same pattern went on for over a month. I messaged several times asking for support, she ignores all my messages, posts ads etc... I messaged one final time last night asking could she please at least explain to me why she had ignored me and that it had left me feeling upset and worthless. Again she didn’t care. I put a poll on my story asking if people liked the Instagram influencers with a picture of her account (I wanted reassurance it wasn’t me that was the issue, but that she was generally disliked). I went to bed and woke up this morning to message requests, comments, screenshots being taken etc... I am vulnerable and not doing great which I told R. On knowing this she has given people my account details and they have been sending me abuse. The girl Nicola McClean with the fake titties also sent an abusive message, but then removed it. R has also made lots of fake IG accounts and went onto the poll on my story to vote that she liked herself to alter the poll results. The poll was 100% ‘no’ when I went to bed, but when I woke up this morning it was 76% or something similar, and all the ‘yes’ votes were accounts with strange user names, no followers, not following anyone and no pictures. I think there were 17 fake profiles the last I counted. So she has went on to vote for herself on all these fake profiles. Oh and there was also one ‘yes’ vote from big titty Nicola McClean. Sorry for the long post, which is probably very boring and not exciting as you had all hoped for. But the story R put on this morning was a load of rubbish and totally exaggerated. There was no trolling, no nasty messages etc. I have liked all of her posts, left lovely messages under them etc, but once I reached out for help it resulted in me receiving abuse from her/her followers. Very upset by the whole situation. Was I wrong or out of order? She has blocked me and so has her pc plod hubby. Ps I will attach screenshots of everything in next thread x
Forgot to add, I messaged Nicola McClean back after she deleted her abusive message she sent to me, and after a few messages she said R had replied to me. She didn’t. So not only has R passed my account on to followers and friends, she has also lied to make herself look more favourable. She did not reply to me. She didn’t even acknowledge me. She just kept posting her ads and stories then blocked me and got her hubby to block me