Rachaele, you should probably just address the situation at hand. Rather than posting tit like this. Be honest about the PayPal arrangements. We're listening...
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She’s being pathetic if she thinks this is to do with ‘liking’ her or not. It’s to do with genuine concerns about safeguarding, DA training/experience, where the PayPal donations are being spent & general lack of transparency/honesty - all of which she is refusing to address & resorts to bullying tactics instead (even more worrying as she is an anti-bullying ambassador). But let’s just post another quote on Insta instead Grow up Rachaele.Rachaele, you should probably just address the situation at hand. Rather than posting tit like this. Be honest about the PayPal arrangements. We're listening...
.This quote is bollocks as wasn't she stalking keels page.....she's so full of bullshitRachaele, you should probably just address the situation at hand. Rather than posting tit like this. Be honest about the PayPal arrangements. We're listening...
I meany the screen shot quote, didn't mean what you had written @ChrissyPoo.This quote is bollocks as wasn't she stalking keels page.....she's so full of bullshit
Speaking of podcasts, isn’t she going to be on Happy Mum, Happy Baby?How can she post that
Right back at you rachelle
You don’t like us but you keep checking this thread religiously
Honestly give your head a wobble
I’m going to leave a review about her book and mention tattle see if that gets more followers over
Also have we looked at people who do podcasts? They’re always looking for content and seeing as this is quite serious now maybe that’s a way to go.
She is a narcissist. Clearly checks here, ignores all the genuine questions that are questioning her ethics and turns it around to make herself the victim. I’d say I was shocked but after everything that comes to light, I’m not.Rachaele, you should probably just address the situation at hand. Rather than posting tit like this. Be honest about the PayPal arrangements. We're listening...
I had a similar experience being found a bed in a refuge for myself and my two children, which in the end I didn't take up. But I remember the process and it wasnt simple, as you say. I used to follow PTWM and always used to find it strange she just gave out an email and people could just contact it and get help so seemingly easy. I used to think how can she offer these services like this, but just thought she must be legit. Seems she's a bit of a fantasist maybe, I dunno. Sorry if this doesn't make sense at this point in the thread, but I'm working my way though it and your story about getting a refuge places is similar to me.I find it incredible that PTWM encourages those in DA relationships to contact her and has an emergency email (I’ve seen her advertise this )
I’ve looked on her insta and can’t see any highlights for DA charities to contact in crisis
I would go as far as to say that I don’t actually believe a lot of the women who she claims contact her and she helps get them into a refuge are real cases .....
I’ll tell you for why.... some years back I won’t give you dates because it makes me identifiable I had to be placed into a refuge for my own and my children’s safety. The process was long.... and it took more than a call to someone not affiliated with the right services. I needed to complete numerous DASH assessments , then have a Multi-agency risk assessment conference (MARAC) once the DASH confirmed I was high risk (scoring 14 or above ).
This took the involvement of many professionals and the help of skilled IDVAs , council advisors the police. There was and still is a major shortage of refuge beds across the country and being a social media influencer doesn’t change that. The right channels need to be followed.
After I came out of that particular refuge I needed a very immediate and emergency admittance to a safe place from hospital after being attacked with a knife. The process again required more than a social media influencers input . It requires such skill, in-depth knowledge of process and protocol .....
It just doesn’t add up that a woman at home, just replying to emails and being able to get refuge beds etc , is involved in all of this ? With no ‘apparent ‘ qualifications to speak of in the field... what about the process and protocol, documentation? Some of these cases go to court , to trial?
I now work in an area that comes across situations where we support vulnerable women and children accessing services such as refuge , freedom project , IDVA and housing. I just can’t work out how PTWM is involved in all of this ?
EDITED TO ADD: And if she genuinely is , why not be more transparent about the service offered ? The skills she posses to offer the service ... the cost breakdown etc .... not only will she be instilling confidence in those donating to her but she will encourage more of those experiencing DA to come forward and access support from her if they know they will get the right support ?
Also any report of DA in a household with children should be an automatic safeguarding referral to SS....if women are coming forward and reporting DA is PTWM safeguarding the children in that home by reporting this if she is claiming to be the ‘hero ‘ that she is ? It isn’t all sunshine and rescue stories .....
Same here tit childhood. That’s how I caught on to her lies she reminds me very much of one of my parents I don’t want to go into great detail but the making herself look like a saviour to everyone was a big trait in our household easier to hide deceit then @Keels welcome back sweetheartAbsolutely shocking behaviour from ptwm putting @Noonecares in that position.
I’ve spoken to @Keels about this at length but I had an abusive childhood and some of the behaviour coming from ptwm is exactly what I’ve been through as a child and again recently as an adult (the shitposting on social media is exactly what my parent does especially when they were called out).
The huge safeguarding issues and the money transparency are the very real concerns atm and they really need to be addressed cos it’s putting people who are already in danger/vulnerable in a very dangerous position. Whilst I believe originally she had good intentions she’s allowed her internet fame and the money get to her head.
FYI not jealous or a troll
Welcome Stinker this is exactly what we need people do. As much as I'd like to see her accountable for her actions I don't think legally there is much that can be done however if we can reach out to people so they stop donating to her pay pal it's still a win. There are many genuine DA charities that would really appreciate the money she's taking in every monthI found about this site from a Slimming world Insta account as there was a post about him (cant even remember who it was, defo not Harry or Jack) and I've finally caught up on this thread and my god my mind is blown! I have sent this thread to all my friends who follow her, and hope they do the same. I honestly cant believe how long she's been getting away with it all. I have child protection and family worker background and seriously some of the stuff she says she's involved with would be a massive breech of confidentiality. And just passing on serious incidents on to just anybody, im just sitting here astounded.
She’s 26 so 2 years younger then myself. If you actually watch her she is very much like ptwm it makes you wonder about things. (I’m not saying she wasn’t in one at all by the way) but a lot of the women she helps seem to be very loud and certain of themselves and I didn’t think women were like that after being in that kind of relationship.I don’t doubt that she gives some money to some people who have left troubled relationships who she is now very friendly with- Emily Rose for example.
I’m pretty sure that she would pay for Emily Rose and her son to travel to visit them etc from the Paypal money. Now I obviously don’t know the background to Emily’s previous relationship or why she is no longer with the father of her young son - but I do feel it very troubling that PTWM shows god knows how many videos of her and her young son. I don’t understand how this is safe if she has left a violent and/or abusive relationship even if a restraining order was in place? Even if Emily gives her permission to do this, as a ‘young warrior’ she’s surely too vulnerable to disagree with her cult leader?
I understand what you’re saying. They do seem very similarShe’s 26 so 2 years younger then myself. If you actually watch her she is very much like ptwm it makes you wonder about things. (I’m not saying she wasn’t in one at all by the way) but a lot of the women she helps seem to be very loud and certain of themselves and I didn’t think women were like that after being in that kind of relationship.
Anyone can tell me if wrong as we are all learning but I have a family member in a volatile relationship and she is very quite and watches what she says. I guess we all deal with things differently.
Again before I’m thrown under the bus I do not dispute that any of these women have not been in awful positions but due to the women they are friends with I do question things and I hate myself for it.
I have also wondered if maybe she has lied about some of these people in these situations so she gets more people donating
don’t shoot me down. Again just me asking a few questions. I am not in anyway saying that is what is actually happening.