And how much easier is it to eat one handed, bf and actually sit at a table rather than lounge on a sofa? We’ve all managed to survive. She’s actually making herself reliant on others. What about being a strong, independent woman R? I’m not jealous either, I have 4 sons and a husband who absolutely adores me. I’ve never seen anyone as needy as R, and yes he’s like a man child with that hat on.