I am not the hysterical one here love, read back what you just typed out
You believe he’s using a “professional beard” in Eleanor, ergo he is gay and inferring he would most likely not have his son because he wouldn’t have a one night stand with a woman. You’re saying it’s “easier for him to carry on” like this because he doesn’t want to come out, by using an innocent woman as a shield and allowing her, her family, his son and their side of the family to get abuse for years? For….what purpose exactly? When he can still be gay and not come out without pretending to be in a relationship for nearly 10 years with a son and not subject those people to that? It’s either he’s being forced to live this lie by an outside force (which would be illegal and besides, he has no outside forces to do that anymore), or he’s actively participating in this himself and pretending to have a son & long term girlfriend for no benefit to his career or to the people he’s utilising?
You’re saying that him being in America without Eleanor currently is proof that they don’t live together most of the time when A) it’s extremely hard for Brits to get into the USA at the moment without specific visas or visitation rights, Gemma and Anne were both posting about wanting to go see Harry on tour but they haven’t been able to and B) he’s been seeing his son while he’s been there as indicated by the pictures of them together so he was allowed in probably due to those visitation rights when Eleanor would not.