I do this too - Santa has always given my son little gifts that will fit in his stocking and I’ve given him the big presents, for the exact reason you stated! I couldn’t bear the idea another kid felt like Santa gave my son more or something! To be fair tho, I’ve said multiple times over the years that I didn’t want Santa getting credit for the amazing presents my son has got so I do get where she is coming fromto be fair we do this to. We get the bigger gifts and Santa gets something small. Otherwise how would their friends feel if our kids got big fancy gifts etc but their friends didn’t? It would be pretty tit to be honest if my kid came home and said “xyz got a Xbox for Christmas from Santa but I only got a soft toy! Why does Santa get some kids really expensive gifts and I don’t?