LOL I mean I am working within context, and I do have compassion for her even though she bugs me. but truly, where there's a will, there's a way. there's countless spectacular places you can go for dirt cheap (esp in the middle of nowehere) and even if it's not glamorous, there are also many ways to travel to beautiful less remote places & earn a living while doing it. my buddy who was a lawyer and hated his life dropped everything and went to Hawaii for 2 years & lived on a farm he worked on to stay and eat there for free & make a little spending money. another one of my friends got dumped so she quit her job, got rid of all her crap & couch surfed through Europe, flirting her way to quite a lot of free tit & finding various longer term work-to-live arrangements through people she met while she was there. it's not stable, it's totally unpredictable (which I think is good for the healing), it's not as cushy as what I was thinking for posh af Niomi, but it IS doable.