I don’t really get peanut butter gate? If he bought them and she hid them, where did he think they disappeared to? Surely he must have noticed they kept disappearing? I’m a bit lost? And why did she hide them?
I think the jars in the secret stash were gifted ones to Niomi but she chose not to tell Joe that she had a stash of them so he would buy peanut butter and consume it, then go out and re-purchase which is why he was annoyed as 'invested' in buying them when there many in the cupboard he did not know about.
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At 3.50 Rhiannon asks, what is like having a boyfriend who is non-vegan. Her response is that he decided to eat vegan at home. I think you were all right, that Joe was maybe having a more varied diet when working, lunches out etc but when at home ate what Niomi ate. However, if compare Niomi's statements in this video to Smoothie Bowl weather incident, she was pressuring Joe to not have toast and PB.