I get the impression she resents him for not being her “real” father and harbours some jealousy of her little sister for having the perfect nuclear family. She really needs to seek therapy to work that out. Paul’s been in her life since she was like 11. He’s done all the “Dad” things one would expect - moving her from different apartments, providing for the family, taking them on 15 years of Balearic boat vacations, supporting her after the breakup. He also seems to make her mother very happy. Maybe she’s jealous of her mother’s relationship too She’s always focused on what she doesn’t have and takes for granted what she does.She's allergic to work of all kinds. Maybe if they called it a "volunteer vacation" she'd be interested.
I saw that Verity tagged Paul and went to his profile, he hasn't posted anything since 2018 but his profile photo has Verity, DM, and Niomi in it. How sad that Niomi barely considers him family.