I’m so worried about this. My baby is due 28th June- so just after restrictions will be lifted and I’m terrified of lots of people wanting to come round. Not only will I be worried about Covid but I just want to be in that bubble for a bit with my baby. I’m so anxious my MIL will interfere. At the moment she doesn’t seem remotely bothered about me being pregnant- she’s not even said congratulations or asked how I am- but I just have this feeling she will be all over us like a rash when he arrives. And she’s the last person I want to see straight away. I can just see her wanting all her side of the family to come over too and invade the house, claiming my other half should see them as it’s been so long. But I’m scared of causing offence. She’s so opinionated and I’m very shy, but it’s already causing me to panic. I feel Like this little bubble Iv been in my pregnancy will just burst open and I won’t be able to cope with all the visitors as everyone will want to socialise won’t they?Get lots of lavender oil if you are having a vaginal birth. This was an absolute godsend for me. I soaked my pads in it and put it in my baths and it really helped.
The only other advice is to not have any visitors you don’t want! I didn’t dare say no to anybody with my first baby in case I looked rude, but I really struggled to breastfeed and I remember sitting upstairs really struggling and being paranoid I had visitors downstairs waiting to meet the baby. In hindsight I wish I told them to just leave and let me concentrate on feeding my baby. It’s definitely something I’d do with my next.
Just makes me so scared and anxious