Some people disagreed with you, but some people also agreed with you, including myself. Not sure where you are based but in Ireland, it's the advice of the HSE (health service) to do exactly as you are doing. You stand by your decisions and have explained your reasons very well. Others will stand by their decisions and explain their side well and that's fine too. You hit the nail on the head, we are all just doing our best! There is no "one size fits all" when it comes to raising children
I don’t think it was intended to be a pile on: people are just talking about what happens in their houses and why it works for them
life would be boring if we all parented the same. 
I think you opened up a discussion and people went with it, some with stronger views than others. I do think if you voice an opinion somewhere like tattle- especially one you know isn’t necessarily the norm - you have to be aware that people will disagree with you. You’ve made your choices, be confident in them. I know it’s hard to feel that way in the early years of parenting, but with experience you realise that the only opinions on your parenting that matter are yours and your children.
I just think it was people offering their opinions.
Serving it all together is definitely how dieticians recommend, so I think you’re doing a super job. We do it too
Don’t worry kids can enjoy fantasy tv just like we do
Absolutely not!
No it's not a thing in our house, not even between me and my husband
My husband brought Elanna a rose, but that was it
If you mean an ill timed trip round Tesco which meant snacks for lunch instead of something substantial then yes I did
Nah. Although I got a card made by both children sent home from nursery
Nobody piled on you, everyone gave their own experiences and opinions.
For me it was allowing him time to develop a preference for other foods too, so yes he loves ice cream and chocolate. But if they are all served at the same time as other foods he will more often than not eat his fruit or vege fritter or whatever is for that meal at the same time if not beforeI don't see the issue with chocolate buttons either tbh.
Adults don't need them either, but we still eat them
@Megatron1298 just said above she restricted sugar until 2 and her child is obsessed with ice cream ect?
If you're going to act like they're superior and a "treat" then they're going to want them over fruit and veg.
If you include these things in their day to day lives, without restricting, it's no big deal.
it’s what worked for us yet to see if it’ll work for our current baby as he gets older. His favourite foods are also peas, berries and he loves a good seaweed snack lolI always say my kids diet is better than mine haha!
To be fair, if you read some of the comments she's made on influencers & their kids, she shouldn't judge if she can't handle it herselfTo be fair to @TheBabeWithThePower people were telling her to let her child eat the sugary cake so that was kind of judging her imo!
Anyway noooo I did not buy my child a Valentines Day gift! I didnt even buy my other half a card this year!
ETA I ddi feel like a bad mom sifting through social media this morning and seeing lots of babies in their valentines day red outfits
