Yes because giraffes and whales are only for boys. Oh this infuriates me completely. Firstly, that outfit is completely gorgeous and I’d like to know where it’s from. Secondly, the gender stuff we force on babies is so sad. In the library the amount of times I hear people (often it’s grans with little ones) saying ‘no don’t get that book it’s for boys’ cause there’s a monster or dinosaur on the cover. It’s awful to listen to cause it just crushes any joy the kids get from picking their own books at the library but also teaches them what they’re supposed to like and not like. Grinds my gears!Fingers crossed you get answers soon!!
My daughters clothes today.
Walk into my partners Mums house. She looks her up and down and goes.. "When are you going to start dressing her like a girl?"
She also hates the fact that my 3 year old daughter loves dinosaurs.
Hides any dinosaur toys she takes round and replaces them with dolls.
She has dolls love but she chooses to play with dinosaurs.
He'd be getting a nappy in his face if he lived hereNo purpose of this but to rant
Last night Everleigh was awake 12-3am then 5-6.30am then my 3 year old got up at 7am.
I jokingly said to my partner this morning (who didn't move off the sofa until 10.40am as we were still upstairs and he sleeps down there. ) I said.. Ahh after that night, I need a nap.
He went.. "a nap? You're not the only one, I was hot"
Tonight I went to bed at 10. Eventually managed to fall asleep around 11.30 andddd Everleigh wakes up 20 minutes later
But guess who's downstairs playing Fifa and will again be complaining he's not slept?
hi I’ve been thinking of you. No advice based on experience and I can’t imagine how hard it is but I can only say the thing that you have to remember to hopefully ease your guilt (which must be awful for you) is knowing that they’re in the right place getting looked after. It’s a necessary thing and it’ll end and they’ll get to come home nice and healthy with you soon. They won’t remember any of this one day, all they’ll know is that you’re their mummy and that you love them so much. Sending all the love xxxHi ladies, I feel like a bit of a fraud joining I should still be pregnant and still don't feel like I'm the twins mum whilst I'm in NICU. But for any one who has had nicu babies does the guilt of leaving them and not being the one caring for them all the time ever leave you? I'm not sleeping because I just feel so immensely guilty I'm not with them and it's giving me the most awful headaches that when i do go to NICU I'm struggling with the noises
feeding to sleep is NOT bad, it will NEVER be bad Helping your baby drift off to sleep peacefully and happily is a wonderful thing. I have fed all my kids to sleep (for naps and bedtime) until they are 2 years old. We now have an 8yo and a 5yo who sleep perfectly well, and an almost 3yo who still likes a cuddle to go to sleep. Please don’t listen to anyone who says it’s “making a rod for your own back” or that they’ll never sleep on their own. It’s nonsense! Nobody goes off to uni still needing a wee boob before bedHow do you all get your babies to nap (even on you)? My LO will sometimes sleep when we’re out in her sling (she loves looking around eyeballing people waiting for them to give her attention ) and occasionally the car seat. At home though the only way I can get her to sleep is to feed her. Sometimes she drifts off on her playmat but if I creep out she cries and if I stay and she sees me she gets so excited she wakes up for more playtime (super cute though). Is feeding her to sleep bad or should I be working on getting her to fall asleep in other ways?
Ahh that's adorable. I'm a sucker for any wool/knitted thingsMidwife told me at the start that they likely will settle for your partner better because they can't smell your milk!
Tesco clothes are actually so cute I'm obsessed with bunnies and they had loads in and it washes great. But how adorable is this
Hi, thank you for asking. Feeling pretty crap. Nausea & dizziness, now I’m getting cramping down my left side & shoulder pain so I’ve bought myself to A&E I’ve been sitting here since 3 o’clock and there’s still no sign of being seen.I'm just catching up on here! @Disneylifeonly huge congratulations on your engagement @Hairraiser congratulations! How are you feeling today?
On the subject of resentment etc, i totally feel this. My partners been off for a couple of days and today I think he FINALLY realised what it's like being home with the 2 kids. He always used to make comments about me being on maternity, id see what its like when I'm back at work, how he'd rather stay at home with the kids and me go back to work etc etc.
Were currently getting work done in our house so I was sorting through stuff, skip runs etc. I picked up dinner after going to the skip and came in and he absolutely lost it saying how difficult the kids have been today and how he's had them himself etc (I've been at home minus going shopping/skip runs and to pick up dinner). He's saying I need to help more with the kids as he can't handle the 2 kids together.
I'm going to be really selfish here when I say this but finally I'm glad he sees its not all rainbows and butterflies like he imagined it would be, he never spends time with the kids tbh. He'd rather sit on his phone or choose to feed baby over play with my toddler etc. I've told him how difficult it is but was always met with the replies above on me returning to work, on top of having PND and feeling quite unsupported at times this is just the icing on the cake.
Yes that’s me.Am I right in remembering you had almost 0% chance of falling but you really wanted another? Or was that someone else? Should we say congratulations? It’ll be hard but lots of people do make it work. It’s like twins, really hard but somehow you just get on with it. I can see a lot of positives in having two so close in age too. How do you feel about it?
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Someone on this thread posted this one, I've not bought it yet though so can't comment on how well it works
Do you leave it on overnight?
@Babyyoda88 so glad your girl is home safely! Hopefully after a night or two of adjustment she will be a bit more settled. I suppose NICU is quite loud, and she may not be used to the quiet? You can get heat pads for the crib, someone has mentioned them before but I don’t know what they are called - maybe ask on the pregnancy thread too?