If planning a big wedding and hen are too much then scale it all down. And I thought the maid of honour organised the Hen?
Maybe all your friends are dropping out Nay cause you expect too much of People who have kids and lives. She wants the sort of thing you organise when you don't have other commitments. Not everyone dumps their kids as quickly as you do Nay.
yes you can imagine the hen do is probably abroad, really expensive with over the top activities.
a lot of people can’t justify lavish hen do’s because they have to budget ( especially because a lot of her friends appear to have children )
If I had to chose between a 3 day hen do for spoilt princess or a family holiday with my kids I definitely would be letting her down too.
Also some people don’t feel comfortable leaving their kids and/or don’t have the privilege of someone who can look after their kids for that amount of time.
it’s funny that nay says she never gets a break yet spends more time away from her kids and gets more dates than anyone I know. Not to mention they flew to the Maldives when both children were very small to get engaged.