GOD! Ask someone whom you love a question then butt in and answer the question for them. Then turn it around to ME, ME, ME. What the f**k does she know about yoga anyway? 'Unfortunately you can't access emotions all the time from yoga.' No, not with you around you self-righteous, know it all, I'm so perfect and so KIND, Witch! (sorry Tattlers) but..
I see a man who has been struggling with longterm issues long before she came into his life, which she has exacerbated to gain control. She is the one on their first meeting who said let's go to bed, her biological clock was ticking, I call that entrapment. They tried to make it work for their first child's sake, but it looks to me like that marriage failed before it even happened.
Yes I know he has been behaving atrociously, most especially at the moment but SHE over a long period of time has broken him to bits. He has huge self esteem problems amongst other things. She has The Messiah complex, extreme feelings of grandiosity, she is above everyone else and every one must dance to the beat of her drum or, they are OUT.
No wonder he dragged her out in a box and dumped her in the front garden. How the man has managed not to have a drink is remarkable especially as she has it spread all over the kitchen which is positively evil.
I said this way way back, if the genders were swapped we would be calling what Nitty is doing here, Gaslighting and extreme emotional control and abuse.
He looks so, so sad. The body language, clenching his fists, almost in prayer, whilst she sits pointing her finger, waxing lyrical about everything that is wrong with him, not pausing for breath and battering him with words. He is seething, he looks like he is beginning to refuse to bend anymore. I hope for his sake and for his children's sake, he doesn't break, but breaks free.
As someone said earlier back, she knows what she is doing and keeps the witch out of sight, whilst he is slowly having a nervous breakdown in front of our eyes on the v-logs, coffee mornings and lives.
That was the real Manks on that timestamp, a husband who is not henpecked by his wife, but verbally battered into submission, every day.
Thank you
@cormorant for that timestamp.