To be fair - it's all about everything in moderation.
You don't need teaching, just maybe a thicker skin, don't let folks on a forum get to you, I think we have a good bunch on here, and we love your posts, just do what most of us ( I think !!) and have a break every now and then
Thanks for the timestamp. It is so disappointing and troubling that, when talking about whether Nuttya should publicly post photos of KiKi, his instinct is to find a way to justify sharing them to the world, as opposed to first thinking about what is best for the child. Nuttya has over 300K followers on Instagram - we’re not talking about sharing photos to a few friends and family on a private site. And then he includes the conversation about it in the Weekend vlog. What a selfish, self-involved prat. He’s not serving his daughter well.
This is very good advice. Personally, when I don't agree I follow the moderator's guidance and scroll on by.You don't need teaching, just maybe a thicker skin, don't let folks on a forum get to you, I think we have a good bunch on here, and we love your posts, just do what most of us ( I think !!) and have a break every now and then
He makes me sick. I used to find it concerning when he would direct people/subs to Izzy and Fleur's personal instagram accounts until they quickly set them to private.
I'm also v grateful for the timestamp Clarity seeker and completely agree with this assessment Hopscotch, especially as M's the one who is most vocal about respecting the girls' wishes. However, I also think it's part of M's divide and conquer style of parenting. N sounds defeated about her daughters not wanting to be associated with her. M plays the whole, "If you catch her in the right mood she says yeah Dad that's fine." It's not about catching KiKi in the right mood, it's about her right not to be seen your car crash 'family' YT channel. Her digital footprint already has his grubby mud all over it. Sadly, we're used to M manipulating a group of vulnerable strangers to maintain his 'lifestyle' but his own daughter? Disgusting behaviour.
Yes i understand that now but i felt like i needed to clarify the matter because really to be honest i felt a little confused?Oh my God, Oh my God no way! I can't remember what that gnome post was about but it had nothing to do with you. Sometimes if I post 2-3 in a row, when you read them they kind of don't connect unless you read the post it is connected to. No, I was very sad to see you go, I absolutely loved your posts and I was also really impressed that you decided to take a break.
I'm so sorry but really that was a post that got 'lost in translation.' It was not about you.
Yes absolutely agree with your post regarding posts getting mixed up and not relating. I get quite frustrated sometimes when I take care in writing a long post and it sort of ends up somewhere random three posts down from where I wanted it to be. I agree with you on all the other points. I think we have a really friendly (and what I love most of all) brave and honest community chatroom here. Everyone, to me, is so intelligent, with a great sense of humour and @Misbehaving's posts are exceptional!I know... right?
I too actually struggle half the time with how the thread moves so fast and when we Write a comment where it says ‘quote’ It never seems to fall in the right place.
Half the time I’m not even answering someone else’s post, I just shove my rants anywhere that they’ll fit!
There is nobody currently here who I would ever feel the need to be rude to and I don’t think anybody else here has any grievances with other members so, hand on heart, I think something said did indeed get lost in translation.
That said, I love that if one of us feels we were misunderstood, we can say so and be reassured.
It’s that type of community and I really like that.
Yes! Same vlog around 21:39 is where he insists it’s ok to put up Kiki stuff even though ratios says no.
and even if there were I would just remain quiet. Someone was really rude to me way back, and I said I think that was a bit uncalled for may I have an apology and I got banned and they didn't. Apparently I had derailed the thread. Any way I learned some sort of lesson, not quite sure what, just don't derail threads!A pack of butter to bind the digestives together for the base - why does she think people eat like this? so dated on her food approach
He's hanging on to the Joe Wicks plan by his bleedin' fingertips, judging by his new set of moobs which have made a reappearance in the last couple of vlogs.
I lurked too@Misbehaving- I say ‘lurk away’ and comment as you feel the need.
I for one was sorry that you’d left and would be sorry to see you leave again.
Remember when I went off for a while back in August? I lurked!
I just asked myself what I was doing spending so much time on those two but actually, the reason I started commenting again was the same reason I came here- to call them out for their treatment of vulnerable subs and for their lies and breaking of Covid rules.
More than that though, I came back because I love the giggles and banter between other tattlers.
Some of the best laughs I’ve had this year were in this group.
We all have stuff going on behind the scenes and often question ourselves.
I might come across as a bit ballsy but I’m really quite timid and insecure in many ways.
I just love a bit of detective work!
I’m solid in what I believe about the Adderley’s though. Please be kind to yourself and stay if you can.
Believe that we value you and your eloquence.
I for one totally appreciaye your input, your calmness and your rationale.
and hear hear to all of the above Well that's tomorrow's schedule sorted then. For hour after hour that clever clever man will sit at the dining room table with a hang dog expression on his face, because he's got the weight of the tit Sunday Show on his shoulders. I reckon he'll be justified in polishing off that whole cheesecake, which is all the resassurance N needs to know she's still needed.
Actually you teach me how to respond in a better and more mature manner so I'm afraid you won't be getting any tips from me!
@Misbehaving whether you lurk or make comment, it's great to know you are about. Welcome back.shame on him, what a twit he is, his own daughter = its very cruel and very irresponsible - he calls himself a good father!I know... right?
I too actually struggle half the time with how the thread moves so fast and when we Write a comment where it says ‘quote’ It never seems to fall in the right place.
Half the time I’m not even answering someone else’s post, I just shove my rants anywhere that they’ll fit!
There is nobody currently here who I would ever feel the need to be rude to and I don’t think anybody else here has any grievances with other members so, hand on heart, I think something said did indeed get lost in translation.
That said, I love that if one of us feels we were misunderstood, we can say so and be reassured.
It’s that type of community and I really like that.
Yes! Same vlog around 21:39 is where he insists it’s ok to put up Kiki stuff even though ratios says no.
Does anyone know if Boris mentioned Maddie during the announcement of the lockdown?
Do you know I actually remember thinking at the time that I wanted to post and say "Don't go, you'll be so missed," but I chose not to because I thought it would be manipulative and you had made you decision. (I wish I had now
) The gnome.. I was making a joke because I thought we had a sub visitation and I vaguely remember looking at the page thinking, 'Oh no that looks all mixed up.' Sorry I can't be more clear, so much has been said since then. Anyway sending a big virtual sorry hug.Yeah cos she really is actually very healthy don't forget and vegan. Maybe it was just a one off treat.To be fair - it's all about everything in moderation.
You can't expect N to survive on Buddha Bowls, bone broth and hot water with lemon and turmeric. She's got celebrity curves to maintain, don't you know?
Although it really is a worry if this is another gift for her father who had heart surgery in the last year / her hot husband who talks the talk about trying to cling onto the Joe Wicks plan.
She's a toddler, she's just been left with the ingredients so she's just splatted it all in together, that's how toddlers bake.
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