Totally agree ,they come on to stir the tit,make a few vague and derogatory comments,then they disappear again.Thank you @notSUBmissive.
I didn’t think I said anything offensive apart from “Go suck a pickle,” but it was more than I’d usually say to anyone who bugs me. I’d usually be more polite than that.
That new member seemed to be looking for debate though, and I was kind of ready for it. ( bad day)
There’s a nice feel about this platform which I mentioned yesterday, in that, yes, some members might swear and be quite verbal in their rants but it’s never directed at other tattlers- it’s always about The Swadderlys.
I love that about this group. We all have a mutual respect for each other’s viewpoint and how we express it.
‘Manic Member of Yesterday’ just didn’t seem to have that vibe at all and ruffled my feathers immediately.
For a moment I thought it might be AG as he seems to spend a lot of time trawling different platforms for comments from anyone who dares NOT to kiss N or M’s boots.
I especially thought it might be him after his Twitter post was revealed on here yesterday.
Who knows?
I also posted yesterday that nobody knows what Face is behind anyone’s profile and what their lives are like. I was reminded about that only after engaging with the phantom beastie last night hence my asking if I may have been wrong for calling them up?
My Jiminy Cricket was poking my ear all night!
Anyway.... on with the show.
Yes, the posting style was the thing.
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In the vlog where Lisa was holding Mank’s hand and preparing him for the shock of Wardrobe man and the Organised Friends imminent visit, wasn’t it Nadia who filmed it?I used to really like her and found her very funny. But since I saw her kissing and hugging Markand holding his hands, I have changed my mind. What does she think she is doing ffs! Bet her hubbie would not be too pleased if we sent him a picture of what she gets up to with Mark. Wonder how she or Mark would feel if Nadia started kissing Lisa's husband and holding his hands for HUNDREDS OF VIEWERS to see. Mark has left those bits in because it makes him look
good. Does Nadia even know about it as she rarely watches everthing in the videos that Mark posts ???? Stupid, stupid woman. Maybe we should send photos to Nadia too! I even remember Mark saying that Lisa was one of the very few people he liked and because of that she was always welcome
do she’s aware of the closeness.
I’m thinking Lisa might have either-
a) been piling it on for content as directed by Manky- let the subs think we all get on so well and are so close,
OR
b) treating him like a little bwho has to do something he doesn’t want to do.
I honestly think Lisa’s hubby has much more appeal in his left earlobe than the whole of Manky put together- both looks wise and otherwise.
Maybe she plays up to the fact that he’d love it if she did fancy him but then goes home and laughs and laughs ... and throws up?
Whatever the reason, I know I wouldn’t like it. Boundaries etc.
That absolutely makes my blood boil that's he's deleted yr comment..... my god and they spout *Be Kind.....disgusting behaviourI think I may have been blocked from commenting on their channel as I posted this comment yesterday and nobody has given it a(don't worry I'm not desperate for either but would've thought at least one of their subs would've said SOMETHING. Can fellow Tattlers check to see if you can see the comment on the video? I'm not sure how to check if I've been blocked? If I have then surely I shouldn't see their videos or even be able to post a comment?
We have people reading the thread but not commenting and it is always great when those people do start posting. However, when a new member starts joining in and then suddenly starts policing the comments it is very obvious they are trying to close down discussion on the thread. I reported the last one based on the terms and rules:
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Oh dear.
I’ve witnessed this kind of thing previously when a newbie joined, commented, was aggressive, and left.
it upsets the flow.
It throws things off for a while.
Please, please know @Misbehaving that I adore your posts, wit, sincerity, articulation, morals and am mortified to think I may have offended you.
I am so very fond of many tattlers here and hope that even by placing a little
beside each of everyones comments that it not only reflects how I love the comment and the context in which it was written, but that I love the tattler’s ethics and personality behind that comment too.Im not sure what anyone might have said after you left a few weeks ago but I hope I didn’t say anything which upset you. I really don’t think would have. If I did, I truly apologise.
Hugs and all warm wishes to you and to all those who interact here with good hearts.
#its all about the subs being duped
#Swadderly vigilante tongue in cheek brigade.
Looking at the comments on some of their recent uploads they need to start taking on board the feedback. One of their subs recently suggested that Mark seemed to be struggling with the Sunday show and perhaps he should consider only putting it out once a month, his response was "no because people love it" 
but from what I can make out people seem to be leaving in droves! The vlog is just an excuse for him not to seek real employment and the greed has taken him over. They also both seem pissed off the girls no longer want to feature in the vlogs, Mark had a little outburst the other day about it.
but from what I can make out people seem to be leaving in droves! The vlog is just an excuse for him not to seek real employment and the greed has taken him over. They also both seem pissed off the girls no longer want to feature in the vlogs, Mark had a little outburst the other day about it.Lovely to see you back, but I have to reply to this, I think it's the way that when someone new posts, folks are abit wary, I was the same when I first joined, haven't been here that long, but read alot before, I think we all know that sometimes Mank and co will post, I choose to wether to reply or ignore, think I've got the gist of it here now, and yes I really like the camaraderie of the folks here, and if I've had enough of m and n, I just stay away from posting, plus I do venture out of this thread and post elsewhere, it's good for the soul
and she looks soon comfortable in her normal everyday wear.If the cap fits
Happy Halloween from Nits and Mank. Think someone is going to lose it if the lockdown is announced. A full on Boris attack.
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Oh my God, Oh my God no way! I can't remember what that gnome post was about but it had nothing to do with you. Sometimes if I post 2-3 in a row, when you read them they kind of don't connect unless you read the post it is connected to. No, I was very sad to see you go, I absolutely loved your posts and I was also really impressed that you decided to take a break.
I'm so sorry but really that was a post that got 'lost in translation.' It was not about you.
In one of yesterday’s vlogs where they were walking in the park, one of them said something about perhaps filming Kiki and putting it in a Vlog.Looking at the comments on some of their recent uploads they need to start taking on board the feedback. One of their subs recently suggested that Mark seemed to be struggling with the Sunday show and perhaps he should consider only putting it out once a month, his response was "no because people love it"
Bratia was saying they couldn’t as Kiki had quite categorically stated she didn’t want to be filmed.
Mank said - ‘No, Kiki says that but she doesn’t always mean it, she can be talked round. Or we can just put it on anyway.’ (Words time that effect)
Fair play to Brat face as she repeated Kiki didn’t want to be filmed but seeing as Mank is the ‘editor’ she really can’t enforce anything and I’d say he throws plenty of Hissy Fits when he doesn’t get his way.
He knows the more people keep asking after the girls, the more thumbs up he’ll get if he ‘accidentally’ includes them on a vlog, even if only for a milli second.
I noticed that too. He is in full control of the content which goes out on their channel. In the latest Weekend Vlog45 (at 14.45), the smugfuckery of Mank saying "no" boiled my piss no end.In one of yesterday’s vlogs where they were walking in the park, one of them said something about perhaps filming Kiki and putting it in a Vlog.
Bratia was saying they couldn’t as Kiki had quite categorically stated she didn’t want to be filmed.
Mank said - ‘No, Kiki says that but she doesn’t always mean it, she can be talked round. Or we can just put it on anyway.’ (Words time that effect)
Fair play to Brat face as she repeated Kiki didn’t want to be filmed but seeing as Mank is the ‘editor’ she really can’t enforce anything and I’d say he throws plenty of Hissy Fits when he doesn’t get his way.
He knows the more people keep asking after the girls, the more thumbs up he’ll get if he ‘accidentally’ includes them on a vlog, even if only for a milli second.
I know... right?Oh my God, Oh my God no way! I can't remember what that gnome post was about but it had nothing to do with you. Sometimes if I post 2-3 in a row, when you read them they kind of don't connect unless you read the post it is connected to. No, I was very sad to see you go, I absolutely loved your posts and I was also really impressed that you decided to take a break.
I'm so sorry but really that was a post that got 'lost in translation.' It was not about you.
I too actually struggle half the time with how the thread moves so fast and when we Write a comment where it says ‘quote’ It never seems to fall in the right place.
Half the time I’m not even answering someone else’s post, I just shove my rants anywhere that they’ll fit!
There is nobody currently here who I would ever feel the need to be rude to and I don’t think anybody else here has any grievances with other members so, hand on heart, I think something said did indeed get lost in translation.
That said, I love that if one of us feels we were misunderstood, we can say so and be reassured.
It’s that type of community and I really like that.
Yes! Same vlog around 21:39 is where he insists it’s ok to put up Kiki stuff even though ratios says no.
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Yes your right something upset the balance i'm tempted to say its as if there was something in the air what with it being a scorpio lunar month and now halloween!Oh dear.
I’ve witnessed this kind of thing previously when a newbie joined, commented, was aggressive, and left.
it upsets the flow.
It throws things off for a while.
Please, please know @Misbehaving that I adore your posts, wit, sincerity, articulation, morals and am mortified to think I may have offended you.
I am so very fond of many tattlers here and hope that even by placing a little
Im not sure what anyone might have said after you left a few weeks ago but I hope I didn’t say anything which upset you. I really don’t think would have. If I did, I truly apologise.
Hugs and all warm wishes to you and to all those who interact here with good hearts.
#its all about the subs being duped
#Swadderly vigilante tongue in cheek brigade.
I should have taken a clean break and not lurked in the shadows (so to speak) it didn't do me any good being an eavesdropper (not that i had any ulterior motives mind i just wasn't sure what to do anymore i got a bit lost) and its easy to get things wrong if you don't participate in a conversation so my lesson is truely learnt on that score.
Next time if i'm not sure about something i'll just take the sensible option and just ask verify first? Yes it seems so obvious and yet its something i've had to learn to do.
So thanks for being patient i think i haven't been my usual self and maybe thats true for some others as well but i probably shouldn't speculate on others (even mark and nadia) untill i've worked on finding balance within myself first.. thank you for being understanding and i also have respect for your unfailing diligence and masterful detective work plus your impish humour and insight i'm sorry if i misread something i've been feeling a bit too receptive and also emotional and again i've learnt that maybe i'm not the best judge of things when i feel lke that so no more lurking!!! Also their is nothing wrong with admitting you need time out (i don't know why i had to jusify that to myself?).So cheers and thanks for helping me find my way back.
@Misbehaving- I say ‘lurk away’ and comment as you feel the need.
I for one was sorry that you’d left and would be sorry to see you leave again.
Remember when I went off for a while back in August? I lurked!
I just asked myself what I was doing spending so much time on those two but actually, the reason I started commenting again was the same reason I came here- to call them out for their treatment of vulnerable subs and for their lies and breaking of Covid rules.
More than that though, I came back because I love the giggles and banter between other tattlers.
Some of the best laughs I’ve had this year were in this group.
We all have stuff going on behind the scenes and often question ourselves.
I might come across as a bit ballsy but I’m really quite timid and insecure in many ways.
I just love a bit of detective work!
I’m solid in what I believe about the Adderley’s though. Please be kind to yourself and stay if you can.
Believe that we value you and your eloquence.
I for one totally appreciaye your input, your calmness and your rationale.
Thank you for welcoming me back that means a lot to me i've felt a bit out of the loop so to speak (my own fault really just been extra sensitive).You are right its best to just dip in and out of the thread depending on your mood and god knows i didn't intend to make a big drama out of it all but i just haven't been handling my emotions very well which is a bit embarrassing to admit but its the truth.Lovely to see you back, but I have to reply to this, I think it's the way that when someone new posts, folks are abit wary, I was the same when I first joined, haven't been here that long, but read alot before, I think we all know that sometimes Mank and co will post, I choose to wether to reply or ignore, think I've got the gist of it here now, and yes I really like the camaraderie of the folks here, and if I've had enough of m and n, I just stay away from posting, plus I do venture out of this thread and post elsewhere, it's good for the soul
I think you could all teach me a lesson in how to respond to things in a better and maybe more mature manner.So hats off to all of you and thanks for your kindness.
When one of us here on this thread comes under scrutiny I feel it. None of the "core" tattlers who write on here have anything but concern for the cult the Sawalha-Adderleys have created and the effects it has on their children, their animals and their vulnerable subs.
New commentators are very welcome but the majority of new ppl come to agitate and unbeknown to them they stand out a mile. The ones who have their toes dipped in both camps also stand out a mile.
No-one who regularly commentates has in my opinion done anything wrong. We need to look after one and other as we are a powerful force for truth but we are a small group.
We are a very insightful lively group of people. Let's not let anyone pull us apart. We are a force for truth, honesty and decent behaviour.
If people come here to argue with us, I'm going to follow the guidelines and completely ignore them. They come for a fight, let them argue with themselves
New commentators are very welcome but the majority of new ppl come to agitate and unbeknown to them they stand out a mile. The ones who have their toes dipped in both camps also stand out a mile.
No-one who regularly commentates has in my opinion done anything wrong. We need to look after one and other as we are a powerful force for truth but we are a small group.
We are a very insightful lively group of people. Let's not let anyone pull us apart. We are a force for truth, honesty and decent behaviour.
If people come here to argue with us, I'm going to follow the guidelines and completely ignore them. They come for a fight, let them argue with themselves
that cheesecake she is making, full fat philadelphia, icing sugar, double cream nutella - digestive biscuits, that is heart attack material, makes my teeth itch thinking about it - urggggggggggg
When one of us here on this thread comes under scrutiny I feel it. None of the "core" tattlers who write on here have anything but concern for the cult the Sawalha-Adderleys have created and the effects it has on their children, their animals and their vulnerable subs.
New commentators are very welcome but the majority of new ppl come to agitate and unbeknown to them they stand out a mile. The ones who have their toes dipped in both camps also stand out a mile.
No-one who regularly commentates has in my opinion done anything wrong. We need to look after one and other as we are a powerful force for truth but we are a small group.
We are a very insightful lively group of people. Let's not let anyone pull us apart. We are a force for truth, honesty and decent behaviour.
If people come here to argue with us, I'm going to follow the guidelines and completely ignore them. They come for a fight, let them argue with themselves
Beautifully put. Give em enough rope. They usually self combust.Does anyone know if Boris mentioned Maddie during the announcement of the lockdown?
she'll be dropping it on to her fanny later and fingering it off and eating it too. lol
those ingredients all laid out are SO ridiculous (and you know there will be butter too lol)....... most of the things you see her make you can't actually buy anything like with that much fat and sugar in a supermarket,because she always puts a pot of jam and packet of peanuts on top of a buttercream cake or something, which you don't get in shops.
she'll be dropping it on to her fanny later and fingering it off and eating it too. lol
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