She’s a full on narc but it’s literally so obvious now it’s scary. Remember threads back when people tried to say she had some sort of neurodivergency?
no she doesn’t.
Nd people have tons of empathy and certainly don’t behave like this. Her erratic and impulsive behaviour are not like the struggles, say, an adhd person has because of an actual neurodevelopmental condition…
ie - a mother with adhd who put her kid on sm and found out the dangers would feel mortified, they would immediately take their child away from the risk and work hard to make sure they were ok
just to say it’s so hard to write this on here but at the heart of any healthy adult is a secure attachment to at least ONE adult, ideally, it should be a main care giver
i am genuinely heartbroken because Ronnie has no secure attachment to anyone, possibly to nursery stuff but given he doesn’t go much I’d say the chances are none
his parents are erratic and inconsistent. Children are way brighter than we believe, i Am 100% confident now ronnie is older he is well aware of his unusual surroundings. As he gets older and goes to school think this poor kid is going to have a fucking tough time. Not because of bullies but because he will be confused as fuck why no one in his family made his greedy mum stop sharing him online to strangers
for Arguments sake if there is a secure attachment now (I doubt it, by his behaviours even from small clippets it looks like a disorganised attachment style, particularly towards Sophie)
I’ve been doing this for years and the fact these small clips can provide snap shots of this already is actually crazy to me.
having your privacy denied to you by a primary caregiver is very much a trauma experience. For anyone interested I would suggest reading about adverse childhood experiences. It’s a new sort of trauma that our generation has created in a digital sense but it’s always been a traumatic experience. That poor child deserves so much better
eta aces aren’t new I worded that badly, but the concept of privacy invasion is in regards to using your kid like this. Many parents deny their kids privacy in other ways but this hinch Solomon style of it is new. No research exists on this itself as an actual ace because it’s far too new but lack of respect for your child and disrespecting their basic rights to privacy and security is still an ace so any research you read about how it impacts a child’s development is relavant
see recent research regarding children who have experience aces presenting like an autistic child which is why ime I wouldn’t diagnose children as young as ronnie as I think his home life is completely bonkers and I don’t feel he has a good environment to grow, kids need to feel safe to grow and attached, nothing I’ve seen ever gives me the idea that poor kid feels any of them things, he always looks confused and in his own world. I know some trusts diagnose asd at his age but for those reasons I’d be reluctant