Being so unwilling to accept her mistakes and change.
People would not be so hostile towards it if she was willing to accept she’s made mistakes. I don’t believe she is that dim around privacy. She certainly understands her own need for privacy, hence the house move. She cannot accept what she does with her kids is a gross invasion of privacy. Something tells me she doesn’t want to admit that as part of admitting that is you put your child at risk and centered yourself above their needs. Feelings of guilt are natural when we want to change and make amends.
When she moved: this would of been the perfect time to censor her kids and not mention their private lives including medical history and tantrums.
“Now we have moved I feel I need to give my children the same privacy I felt entitled to. Therefore, I will continue to share my journey in my house but my kids will life a private life till they can understand what I choose to document. I apologise for over sharing my children. I made a mistake. I want them to be happy and thrive”
Admitting her mistake and having a message out there that “actually I did use my children inappropriately and I got defensive as I felt my mothering skills were being attacked” may mean she can salvage relationships with her kids when they grow. The longer she leaves it, the more likely it is the kids will recognise she always understood and put herself first.
That’s just one issue but you see what I mean. She refuses to ever admit when she’s done wrong, even when it’s screaming her in the face.
This makes her come across false and very unkind. Nobody is perfect, which is a phrase she just utters, but she doesn’t practise it. If she recognised this truly, she’s have figured out the ability to say “I messed up and I will do better” nothing she does is kind of real. She’s very problematic and that is why she has 500 odd threads.
People would not be so hostile towards it if she was willing to accept she’s made mistakes. I don’t believe she is that dim around privacy. She certainly understands her own need for privacy, hence the house move. She cannot accept what she does with her kids is a gross invasion of privacy. Something tells me she doesn’t want to admit that as part of admitting that is you put your child at risk and centered yourself above their needs. Feelings of guilt are natural when we want to change and make amends.
When she moved: this would of been the perfect time to censor her kids and not mention their private lives including medical history and tantrums.
“Now we have moved I feel I need to give my children the same privacy I felt entitled to. Therefore, I will continue to share my journey in my house but my kids will life a private life till they can understand what I choose to document. I apologise for over sharing my children. I made a mistake. I want them to be happy and thrive”
Admitting her mistake and having a message out there that “actually I did use my children inappropriately and I got defensive as I felt my mothering skills were being attacked” may mean she can salvage relationships with her kids when they grow. The longer she leaves it, the more likely it is the kids will recognise she always understood and put herself first.
That’s just one issue but you see what I mean. She refuses to ever admit when she’s done wrong, even when it’s screaming her in the face.
This makes her come across false and very unkind. Nobody is perfect, which is a phrase she just utters, but she doesn’t practise it. If she recognised this truly, she’s have figured out the ability to say “I messed up and I will do better” nothing she does is kind of real. She’s very problematic and that is why she has 500 odd threads.
