I’m on a rant here but do you know what annoys me about this narc hole is how she genuinely thinks she’s a victim and she hasn’t a clue, it’s like a personality trait for her, she uses it for sympathy and has a severe victim mentality complex.
i reckon about 5 people on my sms know the trauma and suffering I’ve had in my life, I don’t mention it because it’s triggering for people, people don’t really care and thirdly. It’s literally my business and I don’t want gain fake friends and sympathy and do not need adoration from people.
I don’t mind putting here as no one knows me but I’m in my late 30s and my life has already had
Loss of both parents and sister
4 years of domestic abuse, I had to flee and stay in temporary housing before I worked bloody hard to get myself into uni and do well
Two major surgeries
Living with a chronic illness and being neurodiverse myself along with my son being nd
I was severely bullied at school by girls like hinch, my life was an absolute misery and I did not attend the last 3 years of secondary school and sixth form and had to do it at home as I was traumatised
tons of others but the fact is I never use it as a way to he poor little me wah Wah!
I could probably easily make money off sharing sad stories on tiktok and Instagram then throw my kids in for good measure but I don’t because I have integrity and value my child’s autonomy and complete human right to privacy. My trauma doesn’t define me and I refuse to use it as a way to get attention like this horrible and very mentally unwell woman does!
)I promise I'll never lay next to you tending to be asleep looking bored out of my mind in your company. I'll play with you and cuddle you and take you outside!!
