I’m on a rant here but do you know what annoys me about this narc hole is how she genuinely thinks she’s a victim and she hasn’t a clue, it’s like a personality trait for her, she uses it for sympathy and has a severe victim mentality complex.
i reckon about 5 people on my sms know the trauma and suffering I’ve had in my life, I don’t mention it because it’s triggering for people, people don’t really care and thirdly. It’s literally my business and I don’t want gain fake friends and sympathy and do not need adoration from people.
I don’t mind putting here as no one knows me but I’m in my late 30s and my life has already had
Loss of both parents and sister
4 years of domestic abuse, I had to flee and stay in temporary housing before I worked bloody hard to get myself into uni and do well
Two major surgeries
Living with a chronic illness and being neurodiverse myself along with my son being nd
I was severely bullied at school by girls like hinch, my life was an absolute misery and I did not attend the last 3 years of secondary school and sixth form and had to do it at home as I was traumatised
tons of others but the fact is I never use it as a way to he poor little me wah Wah!
I could probably easily make money off sharing sad stories on tiktok and Instagram then throw my kids in for good measure but I don’t because I have integrity and value my child’s autonomy and complete human right to privacy. My trauma doesn’t define me and I refuse to use it as a way to get attention like this horrible and very mentally unwell woman does!