Anyone who is about to give birth and worried that you’ve not packed enough for a months stay. I have two words for you “backup bag”. Pack a simple bag planning for a short simple stay.
prepare a pile of “backup” items in case you need to stay longer in an obvious easy place with a suitable bag kept Near it just in case your partner or someone needs to get it for you. And all that needs to be is extra nappies/clothes for you and baby.
she really is ott.
Eta - I was jn for almost a week with no1 so I did need the back up stuff. With no2 I didn’t even do a back up pile I did a list of “extras with exactly where they were located” cos I knew it would be my mum getting them and I could trust her to not rummage