we are not married nor do we have children, however we live together (as tenants) and we have a cat together we don't have a joint account, we have our own accounts. when we had just started our relationship, i was earning much more and i was paying for pretty much everything. he moved countries for me (twice) so there was a time where he just wasn't in the position to contribute. since covid, he is earning more than me and he pays for almost everything. it has all balanced out in a way where no one feels guilty, let's say it like that. when we go grocery shopping, it's just a matter of who pulls out the card faster and we still have those little arguments when we're getting coffee or something ''i'll pay'' ''noooo i'll pay'' my parents never had a joint account, but after reading through this (very interesting) thread, i think we might do the joint account while keeping own accounts, i quite like it.