DCICassieStuart
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That was a huge thing on Mumsnet. I can remember constant parroting of 'All money is family money anyway'I agree with you, I can't imagine asking for permission or even discussing something I want to buy if it's not a big purchase. Equally would not want my boyfriend to spend money that I earned. I know people say it comes down to trust but I'm not working to then limit my financial freedom.
I don't think everything in a relationship must be shared, yes we're building a life together but we're also two individual people.
Also, I know some people hate thinking like that and believe it's not possible for that to happen to them, but I've heard too many stories of relationships breaking down and people becoming horrible to each other. It would give me too much anxiety to be so financially connected.
Ah no. MY money is MY money. HIS money is HIS money, and the money that we put in the joint account together to pay the bills etc is OUR money.