Im going through my third miscarriage in a row, this one was detected at my 12 week scan, babies heart stopped beating at 10 weeks me and my husband were in total disbelief. Im absolutely petrified this one will be the furthest along out of my three miscarriages. Im going into hospital for medical management on Monday as nothing is happening naturally and the thought of having my baby still inside me lifeless is sending me mental, I feel sick with dread what I'm going to endure. Im exhausted, three losses in the past 10 months?!. Im absolutely devastated, this one hurt just that little bit more as I really thought this was the one this time
Im not coping well and just bursting into breathless sobs constantly, my sister is pregnant I was due a month before her, we were meant to be sharing this journey together and now mine is being ripped away, I almost feel embarrassed I’ve been walking around thinking I’m pregnant when all along my babies heart had stopped. They are referring me for tests for recurrent miscarriage but the thought of having to go through this again fills me with dread. I just don’t know what to do with myself my sadness is turning to anger, why me, what did I do to deserve this?! I also have a toddler and I feel like people think she should be lucky she already has one which I do but it doesn’t take the pain and yearning away to have another child.
Im so sorry for the rambling post I’m just so lost. I have my medical management tomorrow but Ive decided to do it in hospital as I’m worried being at home this time just because I’m further along. My last two miscarriages I managed at home but I was alot earlier. What should I expect with medical management and this gestation age? My husband will be will me at hospital, will I have to stay in? They are also going to send the fetus off for testing due to this being my third loss what do they all look for?
Thank you all x