Tbf, making the best out of living in your in-laws attic with a doorless toilet and all that would make you understandably hope it’s just „in between“ wouldn’t it.She seems to spend her life in between milestones and doesn’t enjoy the bits in the middle. Renting is a pain but it doesn’t mean your life is on pause. You can decorate in rent friendly ways (even paint if your landlords are sound), go on holidays, get married, have children and parties. I’ve had most of the best times of my life in a rented shared house.
a home and a life is what you make it. She has such a black and white view of life, it’s quite sad to see actually.